Shannon's Journal Discussion

[Shannon]

After thinking about it come more, I am realizing that I have completely turned the tables on this Chinese girl. She is in her early 20's, but has a breathtakingly beautiful babyface that almost makes her look like a doll with perfect features, and it's not hard to tell she was used to always being the most attractive person in the room. She had something of an ego, and that was not ridiculously obvious, but it was obvious enough if you paid attention. She was apparently used to being told she was beautiful, treated like she was special, and pursued by guys regularly and frequently.

Now I show up, and suddenly I'm the one with all the power. I'm perfectly calm and in control of myself, but she can't keep her responses under control. This has got to have blown her mind! I'll have to see about finding the ideal number of loops to use before I see her from now on, because this one is too interesting to pass up just because I'm trying to do an experiment and get a variable wrong.

Perhaps, the Chinese Girl has a Boyfriend and, that's why the results did not show up ? She is restraining herself because of her boyfriend's influence on her ?

I just accidentally deleted my original post.

Looking like she does, I would not be surprised if she was involved at any level of seriousness or permanence.

There are results, but she's resisting. I just don't know if she's resisting because of boyfriend/fiance/husband, family being present, other Chinese being present (social reputation), being in public, etc. etc.

I do know that she's never encountered the likes of me before, or at least how she's responding to me.

ONS is never a popular option in mainstream Chinese culture. Most women are educated since they were young to not show any interest towards men, at least not right in front of you. To get them act sexual towards you will be even harder, especially if they are considered attractive. And it becomes nearly impossible when they have boyfriends/husbands as cheating is treated seriously in Chinese society.

Getting sex from Chinese girls will need you to be more proactive. If you are very attractive to them, a majority of them will say yes when you escalate on her alone, but most will always say NO when they are with friends. If they are seriously attracted to you like in case you have described, 99% of the time you'll have to get her numbers to initiate what's next between you and her.

AOSI V2 may be very powerful, but I am not sure if it can by pass cultural rules that restrain women from acting on sexual desire. Just remember that most Chinese girls are supposed to act "good" even in their day to day behaviors, which can be a huge difference between them and Hispanic/Latin American women. So it isn't strange if you spot ASD everywhere. I will even say ASD is naturally ingrained in everyday lives of Chinese women. lol

I'm not interested in a one night stand with this girl. In fact if she offered it, I would try to talk her out of it. I don't like them myself. They are emotionally damaging to both parties in most cases.

But, being that one branch of my family extends into Chinese culture, I'm familiar to a small degree with how reserved and restricted the culture is concerning relationships and sex.

This set of encounters is not intended to or expected to lead to sex, because I don't see how it would be possible for me to achieve that situation with her given the circumstances, especially since I know she will expect a relationship at the least, and more probably marriage. I wouldn't mind a relationship, but I am morally against "legal" marriage. I firmly believe that the law has no place in a private relationship or bedroom, and that true marriage has nothing to do with the law. I'm not interested in damaging her reputation or social standing, so it seems unlikely that anything would ever get far past maybe her being my girlfriend for a while at best.

Now, what I am trying to do is, knowing what I do about how many barriers she has to deal with, observe what she does in response and by that, gauge the strength and effectiveness of DAOSI2, and perhaps determine if there is something else I can do to improve it.

That said, I believe that by her responses, I might be able to get her to try to initiate a set of circumstances that would allow her, within her cultural norms, to have a path to sex with me. In other words, I think by her responses so far, that she is interested, confused and intrigued, and could be motivated to try to make it easy for me to start a relationship with her, if she's single. I would be shocked senseless if she were to try to initiate something with me relationship or sex-wise, but I think she might be influenced to go out of her way to make it easy for me to initiate and obvious that she wants me to, if she is single.

So as beautiful as she is, as interesting as she is, she is not just a piece of meat to me, as she might be to a PUA. I am not a PUA. I do care about her cultural requirements and limitations, and her reputation and self esteem and self respect. I admire the Chinese culture for their expectation that people be respectable. But I also know that she represents the ideal person for me to observe the responses and reactions of, and if I can interest her enough with DAOSI V2 to do something about her interest, well that would just make my day. But I don't think she would be interested in dealing with my requirements of her.

So please don't misunderstand my intent. I'm not going to try to sport fuck her. But if there is a challenge in this world when it comes to getting to sex, it is a stunningly beautiful oriental woman who is not a sex worker. And this woman is exactly that.

So while I may not be expecting sex or really aiming for it, I certainly aiming to see what I can make happen that is outside the ordinary.