Shannon's Journal Discussion

[Shannon]

So, does AOSI help you act on all this new attention?

It will be interesting to see how this subs changes things for me, as I do get quite alot of IOI's when out, but I rarely act on it for shut. There are rare circumstances when do and everything just flows into place. It would be nice if I did not hold myself back from acting on the attention I get.

What comes to mind for me is that...I don't want to give women validation through me acting on my attraction to them and then they can just reject me or blow me off. It makes me feel used or as if I have gave them something (which I did not have to) and they just take the buzz from the validation, feel better about their self and just move on.

I feel like when it's mutual, then they are my equal and are worthy of my attention. Do you understand and know what this is Shannon?

I just don't want to validate women, and this holds me back.

Also Shannon, does AOSI, deal with rejection in anyway directly or indirectly?

I understand if it don't, just curious.

There is scripting to act on interest and do something with it.

Yes, I know and understand that that is.

The program isn't about getting you to validate them. It does, however, include self validation.

And no, rejection is not handled. It's not really good to assume rejection.