Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Oversoul]

I feel like the biggest badass on the new DMSI.

And funnily enough, it seems to have worked on my fears that were related to work as much as or more than USLM.

I've been feeling the same periodically specifically in the past 2-3 days. My theory is that the things that prevent "sexual" success are very similar to the things that prevent general success in life. For example, my issue is I don't mind being successful but I fear too much success because it may bring problems. It goes like this:

I fear the negative subjective opinion of others --> Avoid doing "too much" so that people don't notice me --> Get lazy/self sabotage/do something to f*ck up a situation after experiencing a lot of success --> Get frustrated about why I'm not where I should be despite improvements in life.

As you can see, that one fear (as Shannon has mentioned before) influences us to a great deal often in ways that we don't even conceive. But for me personally, here's what happened when one fear was reduced:

I no longer have as much fear of others negative subjective opinion of me --> More comfortable seeking more success --> motivation level stays consistent and I can (sometimes) detect self-sabotage attempts --> more inner peace because I'm living more in accordance with how I want to live.

Naturally, to be successful with women you'll have to let go of certain fears and inaccurate beliefs and to be successful at work (or many other things) will require the same thing. One advantage of USLM over DMSI is that theoretically a subliminal like USLM with FRM will allow you to (once again, in theory) select the fear you want eliminated because USLM is dictated heavily by conscious desires.

Yes, I agree, one fear so easily spills into fear of something else. Ive seen it so many times in so many diffrent cases.


Also looking back at NYE, the girl I made out with within 40 seconds of meeting her, I abandoned her because in my head 'I didn't feel any chemistry' (though she was hot and into it). Is that me having 'higher standards' or is that self sabotage?