Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Shannon]

@Shannon
All these things is part of the skeleton script, nice.
Does uslm also have these enhancement ?

self esteem, self respect, sense of self worth, self liking, self love, self validation, deservingness, self support, self confidence, self image, is part of the skeleton script.?

They are part of the skeleton script. Except for special situations, that means it goes in everything built from the skeleton script.

[AlphaRomeo]

@Shannon
All these things is part of the skeleton script, nice.
Does uslm also have these enhancement ?

self esteem, self respect, sense of self worth, self liking, self love, self validation, deservingness, self support, self confidence, self image, is part of the skeleton script.?

They are part of the skeleton script. Except for special situations, that means it goes in everything built from the skeleton script.

I´m curious, since when these has been the part of the skeleton script? Since 5g? 5.5g? Since which program..? DMSI, which version..? Since..."now"?

[Shannon]

@Shannon
All these things is part of the skeleton script, nice.
Does uslm also have these enhancement ?

self esteem, self respect, sense of self worth, self liking, self love, self validation, deservingness, self support, self confidence, self image, is part of the skeleton script.?

They are part of the skeleton script. Except for special situations, that means it goes in everything built from the skeleton script.

I´m curious, since when these has been the part of the skeleton script? Since 5g? 5.5g? Since which program..? DMSI, which version..? Since..."now"?

That has been the case for around the last 2 years now. I believe it was something like DMSI v2.3/4/5.

[AlphaRomeo]

@Shannon
All these things is part of the skeleton script, nice.
Does uslm also have these enhancement ?

self esteem, self respect, sense of self worth, self liking, self love, self validation, deservingness, self support, self confidence, self image, is part of the skeleton script.?

They are part of the skeleton script. Except for special situations, that means it goes in everything built from the skeleton script.

I´m curious, since when these has been the part of the skeleton script? Since 5g? 5.5g? Since which program..? DMSI, which version..? Since..."now"?

That has been the case for around the last 2 years now. I believe it was something like DMSI v2.3/4/5.

Thank you. That makes sense...I feel I have gained a lot in those terms (among the goals of the programs) with it each program I have used these past couple of years, but it has felt so natural (what was that script/module called again that causes the changes feel natural?) that it takes some self reflection to notice/remember the change in retrospective. Great stuff Shannon, keep up the precious work...for it is truly appreciated by the "silent majority", those who make less noise and feel more gratitude which does not get expressed often enough I think.

[Smuggler]

Wondering if you can help here Shannon. Last Tuesday night I listened to USLM 3. On Wednesday I got a call about a job i've been trying to apply for. It sounds amazing and is a good opportunity for me. The recruiter said they've already got a team in place (New site opening) but could do with someone of my skills. I sent my CV at 11pm that night. Had a phone call on Thursday morning, arranged an interview for today.

In the meantime, it appears my relationship has gone to absolute shit and is pretty much over, it will take a miracle for me to bring this back. Now she said something interesting, telling me how she felt from Wednesday(the day after I first listened) had changed, it's more or less spiralled the whole week. My 2 days off were Sunday and Monday, I haven't listened again, I don't think I will. Is it possible that this is some kind of resistance effect of the sub? Is there anything I can do to halt/reverse it for now?

Also, I had the interview today. I turned up 30 minutes late, still impressed them enough and was offered the job on the spot.

So you started getting results, and then things lot a little challenging, and you're giving up because of it? I'd say that's all the evidence you need that you NEED that FRM. Keep going.

The first week is the hardest. On the first break, I was fighting with my girlfriend constantly, or trying desperately not to. Then the second week, we are very smooth and things are looking way up.

Keep going. You can't expect to get the results if you run away from the process because it's not always comfortable. Tap out now and all you have to show for it is, "Fear won, and I lost."

Keep going. You may be surprised at how things turn out if you do, I think.

You want to halt it? FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED.

Thanks for the advice, I listened again to USLM3 today. The relationship is now fully over as far as she is concerned. I'm now blocked on everything and am not going to be seeing her around physically at her request.
Does USLM have any potential in reversing this situation? Can I focus attention on it somehow?

There is always the potential, but my question is, why do you want that so much? Think about it. I know that ending a relationship is painful, but what makes you want it back? What is driving that pain? Is it fear? Is it desperation? Is it neediness? Or is it being heartbroken? I can't answer that for you, but if you answer it for yourself - and do so honestly - you will benefit.

You can use USLM3 to help you get back that relationship, if that were your conscious goal, but I don't know how long it would take or how well it would work.

Also consider the reason for this breakup. You said she told you she felt like something had changed and she didn't like it. Is that your subconscious trying to get you to quit by sabotaging this? Is that he sensing you being significantly afraid and being turned off? Maybe she is afraid that if you have no fears you won't want her anymore. There are a million possible reasons, and unless she articulates them to you in your own language (manspeak), it's unlikely you will figure it out. Emotions are irrational and illogical by nature.

I suggest that you accept what is for now, and let FRM work on you for a few weeks while you heal and deal with some of these fears. Then consider what you want to do with regards to her.

Thanks for the advice Shannon, I have continued on with listening to USLM anyway. I still don't know what i'm doing or where I am, I feel lost at the moment as a person, obviously the breakup doesn't help anything but I won't dwell on that too much for the forum's sake, i'm 32 years old I can generally cope with it, i've been through several in my lifetime like many of us.

But something else happened to me today, it may be due to just how i'm feeling, or is down to USLM and the FRM module. I had what I feel was an anxiety attack at 12pm today and i've never suffered from any type of anxiety/panic attacks before. It came over me all of a sudden, I felt dizzy, claustrophobic, suffocated, extremely restless, down and had some dark dark thoughts that I NEVER thought I would have. I got into a bit of a panic because i'd never experienced such a thing and had no idea if it would end. It lasted 60-90 minutes and only calmed down once I got out of the house. I can't say what the underlying thought was that brought it on. Will FRM cause this kind of response to come out in me?

[Shannon]

Wondering if you can help here Shannon. Last Tuesday night I listened to USLM 3. On Wednesday I got a call about a job i've been trying to apply for. It sounds amazing and is a good opportunity for me. The recruiter said they've already got a team in place (New site opening) but could do with someone of my skills. I sent my CV at 11pm that night. Had a phone call on Thursday morning, arranged an interview for today.

In the meantime, it appears my relationship has gone to absolute shit and is pretty much over, it will take a miracle for me to bring this back. Now she said something interesting, telling me how she felt from Wednesday(the day after I first listened) had changed, it's more or less spiralled the whole week. My 2 days off were Sunday and Monday, I haven't listened again, I don't think I will. Is it possible that this is some kind of resistance effect of the sub? Is there anything I can do to halt/reverse it for now?

Also, I had the interview today. I turned up 30 minutes late, still impressed them enough and was offered the job on the spot.

So you started getting results, and then things lot a little challenging, and you're giving up because of it? I'd say that's all the evidence you need that you NEED that FRM. Keep going.

The first week is the hardest. On the first break, I was fighting with my girlfriend constantly, or trying desperately not to. Then the second week, we are very smooth and things are looking way up.

Keep going. You can't expect to get the results if you run away from the process because it's not always comfortable. Tap out now and all you have to show for it is, "Fear won, and I lost."

Keep going. You may be surprised at how things turn out if you do, I think.

You want to halt it? FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED.

Thanks for the advice, I listened again to USLM3 today. The relationship is now fully over as far as she is concerned. I'm now blocked on everything and am not going to be seeing her around physically at her request.
Does USLM have any potential in reversing this situation? Can I focus attention on it somehow?

There is always the potential, but my question is, why do you want that so much? Think about it. I know that ending a relationship is painful, but what makes you want it back? What is driving that pain? Is it fear? Is it desperation? Is it neediness? Or is it being heartbroken? I can't answer that for you, but if you answer it for yourself - and do so honestly - you will benefit.

You can use USLM3 to help you get back that relationship, if that were your conscious goal, but I don't know how long it would take or how well it would work.

Also consider the reason for this breakup. You said she told you she felt like something had changed and she didn't like it. Is that your subconscious trying to get you to quit by sabotaging this? Is that he sensing you being significantly afraid and being turned off? Maybe she is afraid that if you have no fears you won't want her anymore. There are a million possible reasons, and unless she articulates them to you in your own language (manspeak), it's unlikely you will figure it out. Emotions are irrational and illogical by nature.

I suggest that you accept what is for now, and let FRM work on you for a few weeks while you heal and deal with some of these fears. Then consider what you want to do with regards to her.

Thanks for the advice Shannon, I have continued on with listening to USLM anyway. I still don't know what i'm doing or where I am, I feel lost at the moment as a person, obviously the breakup doesn't help anything but I won't dwell on that too much for the forum's sake, i'm 32 years old I can generally cope with it, i've been through several in my lifetime like many of us.

But something else happened to me today, it may be due to just how i'm feeling, or is down to USLM and the FRM module. I had what I feel was an anxiety attack at 12pm today and i've never suffered from any type of anxiety/panic attacks before. It came over me all of a sudden, I felt dizzy, claustrophobic, suffocated, extremely restless, down and had some dark dark thoughts that I NEVER thought I would have. I got into a bit of a panic because i'd never experienced such a thing and had no idea if it would end. It lasted 60-90 minutes and only calmed down once I got out of the house. I can't say what the underlying thought was that brought it on. Will FRM cause this kind of response to come out in me?

While FRM is working, that can be a possible reaction. If it is the FRM, that would indicate that it's working on something important, something that is probably tied to a number of other things or fears. In other words, if it is FRM, it's working. Keep going. It's only going to get better as the fears are dealt with and removed.

v4 is designed to be a much faster, easier and more efficient approach than 3.2, so I'm trying to get DMSI 3.3 out as quickly as possible, so I can release other programs with it included, and make things easier.

[lano1106]

What happens if she buys you dinner / drinks, and/or pays YOU to have sex with her?

And how often does it happens that she pays for everything included your transportation costs and so on? I mean in comparison to the opposite?

Globally, it is around 1% - 2% of women that pay for literally everything (according to what I’ve read).

My last 2 dates paid for everything, except transport. It was the same woman for both dates. Transport was like $2 (two bucks!) via bus (I met her locally at the venue).

I’m aware that this is likely a rare scenario though.


As for paying for sex / ‘sex work’... I am 100% okay with people exchanging money for sex, in a consensual arrangement (which is what the typical escort / prostitution situation is).

Personally, I would NOT pay / hire an escort for myself, unless as a last resort (meaning, if I have zero sex for the next few years, then I will consider escorts an option, IF I can afford it at the time).


Shannon makes a good point, that all dating costs resources (time or energy or money, etc).

Personally, I have a huge problem with men having to pay financially for her (in regular dating / non-prostitution situations). Mostly because I’m stuck in the vicious cycle of poverty / debt.



If I was a millionaire I would likely be happy to pay for everything. But my current financial circumstances prevents that, so I’m screening women out who expect men to pay financially, since I can’t afford it.

Time / energy is a much better option for me, in terms of ‘payment’, since I have a bit of time on weekends, and plenty of energy. But zero disposal income.

Someone else, who is rich / well off, would consider paying money to an escort to be ‘more cost effective’ than the time / energy of dating.

Another quick point, if she (non-prostitute) orders highly expensive things on the date (and expects the man to pay for it all), then an escort could possibly be financially cheaper (cost less money), as well as less time / energy.

That is very interesting discussion.

What turns off women is a man that pays/gives with expectation to receive something (like sex) in exchange.

If she deserves something and you give it with no return expectations and it isn't something big anyway like paying the coffee during a coffee date, well go for it...

Finally, I think it is wrong to reduce sex to only a financial decision. For me, if the service of an escort was only a dime. I would still not be interested in it... What I like is the whole seduction process... Pretty much unsatisfying like for a fisherman to go eat fish in a restaurant...

[Shadow2200]

Shannon is it possible we're starting to feel the effects of the anti-fear mod in dmsi?
Although it has been a while since i've stopped using it on break till the next version defently the last few days been noticing i've had the courage or lack of fear to do and say thing to people before i had always shy'd away from. Dancer girl and singer girl had been taking me for granted and making me less of a priory in things, even more so since i've been on break and after bloom wore off. Before we'd have a fight or something and i'd try to fix things up with her this time was different i felt less fear about walking away from both her and my other singer friend that wants to keep bothering me all the time, just start over and get something better. It is something i had wanted or thought about doing never felt strong enough really to go the way through it. Unsure were all that came from all of a sudden

[Shannon]

Shannon is it possible we're starting to feel the effects of the anti-fear mod in dmsi?
Although it has been a while since i've stopped using it on break till the next version defently the last few days been noticing i've had the courage or lack of fear to do and say thing to people before i had always shy'd away from. Dancer girl and singer girl had been taking me for granted and making me less of a priory in things, even more so since i've been on break and after bloom wore off. Before we'd have a fight or something and i'd try to fix things up with her this time was different i felt less fear about walking away from both her and my other singer friend that wants to keep bothering me all the time, just start over and get something better. It is something i had wanted or thought about doing never felt strong enough really to go the way through it. Unsure were all that came from all of a sudden

That is almost certainly TID from FRM.

[MasterEnki]

That is very interesting discussion.

What turns off women is a man that pays/gives with expectation to receive something (like sex) in exchange.

If she deserves something and you give it with no return expectations and it isn't something big anyway like paying the coffee during a coffee date, well go for it...

Finally, I think it is wrong to reduce sex to only a financial decision. For me, if the service of an escort was only a dime. I would still not be interested in it... What I like is the whole seduction process... Pretty much unsatisfying like for a fisherman to go eat fish in a restaurant...

After googling around, it seems the golden rule is that whoever approaches should pay for the date, unless the other person insists.

If she asks him out, she should pay for the whole thing.


Expensive restaurants aren’t the only dating option, luckily. A nice, free (financially speaking) walk on the beach at sunset can be a sexy date for some people.


Personally, I would rather be with non-escort(s) (i.e. the typical women you meet naturally). I’ve never paid an escort / prostitute in my life.

But if two, or more, adults want to have sex, with money being exchanged, then that is okay in my mind. They have the right to make their own decisions. If one person is happy to pay the other for sex, and the other person accepts the money and has sex, then it is a mutual decision.

Prostitutes / escorts can, and do, say “no” to some clients. Where I live, prostitution is legal, and escorts have the right to say “no” and refuse service to clients that they are creeped out by, and/or that they don’t want sex with. They also have a legal obligation to refuse clients that are too drunk / too high.


Some guys / chicks love being seductive, and love the challenge of getting someone that they perceive to be forbidden, and/or ‘out of their league’. There are plenty of ‘challenges’ out there for people that love to test their ‘game’ / seduction skills. Everyday men / women are enough for people that want to seduce people / ‘game’ others.

Escorts are obviously not for people that like the challenge of seduction, and have a different ‘target market’ (i.e. people who want a quick and easy ‘lay’, and can afford to pay for it).


Edit: Yeah... coffee dates sound way better for poor guys (instead of restaurants).

[Shannon]

Master Enki, this forum isn't the place to discuss the ethics and validity of prostitution. In fact, unless the discussion has something to do with the programs we sell, it either isn't appropriate here, or belongs in the chatterbox. Your posts have a tendency to fail that test lately, so please either put them in the chatter box, or stop making them. The forum is about the subliminals, not your philosophy on prostitution.

And please stop trying to give advice on women, dating, sex, etc. when you have so little experience. That's really not appropriate.

[DavisMind91]

Quick question at Shannon or anyone else that can answer, I've been researching the contents of USLM3 and saw where it has ASS/ART (6G tech). I tried to search the forum and the glossary but could not find what it does or what it is. Could anyone help?

[Sterling]

Good morning Shannon.

I started USLM3 about 13 days ago and I want to share some news with you about it.

Ultra Success: I feel very motivated to go go go! I would work 12 hour days whereas before I was not very motivated. I like it. :-)

Luck Maximizer: I noticed that things just go my way as I build my businesses or do my work. When I get stuck; I take a step back from it and 'let go' and USLM3 brings the solution to me. Awesome. I tried it with females but it doesn't seem to work as well as it does with work, lol.

FRM: I noticed that I spend little to no time about being in 'paralysis in analysis' mode as I used to which is great. :-)

I look forward to more from USLM3. :-)

I do have questions and hope that it can help add value to USLM3

1. I notice that USLM3 does not work as well when I am around other people that are negative. When I am working on my own, things go my way which is nice. However when I am around other people and their negative energies, I notice USLM3 seems to take a back seat and I get hit with being 'regular' (without things going my way, so to speak). The question is, does USLM3 have disconnect from other people's negativity?

2. I also notice that USLM3 does not work as well when I am around other people that are jealous of how well I am doing now (USLM3 making things go my way which is awesome!) and those people have targeted negative energy at me on purpose (jealousy, competitiveness, etc..) and somehow I notice that USLM3 takes a backseat to that kind of negative energy too. Does USLM3 have protection from other people's purposeful negative energy sabotaging?

3. I also notice that when I got excited and want to celebrate the awesomeness of USLM3 and what it has done for me, that I ended up self sabotaging myself towards my success goals. For example, have one drink too many or hanging out with the wrong crowd and then end up being unproductive for a few days thereafter. Is there Prevent Self Sabotage in USLM3?

Thanks Shannon for making USLM3. I hope you can improve more upon it. :-)

[Have at ye]

Quick question at Shannon or anyone else that can answer, I've been researching the contents of USLM3 and saw where it has ASS/ART (6G tech). I tried to search the forum and the glossary but could not find what it does or what it is. Could anyone help?

Anti-Self Sabotage and Anti-Resistance technology.

Created to do just what the name implies.