01-12-2015, 12:09 AM
Stage 2, Day 8
Thought I would update since there's been a few developments since my last post. Yesterday was my last day at my movie theater job. I had sent in my two week notice 2 weeks earlier. The first thing I noticed is that when I told people when my last day was the women were mostly shocked and wanted to know why I was quitting. Its funny because I would have sworn I had told people a month earlier that I only needed this job for about 3 months. There was in particular this one woman who kept on saying, "I'm really going to miss you when you go". She would keep on saying this every once in a while to me during those final two weeks. She would also keep trying to talk to me every now and then.
Now, I should explain the major development I noticed but first some back story. There was only one girl I can think of at my work that I found attractive. It wasn't just her looks (Redhead with Blue eyes, and banging body) but she had a very expressive personality. If I had to guess based on observing her she seemed like she was a Alpha female. The only thing though is that through out all my time there (I started working there during stage 5 of AM6) she would get really quiet when we were in the same room together (Which for her seemed out of character). She barely even talked to me while we worked together. At the time I just chalked it up to the Dominance and Authority Auras in AM6 making her submissive and quiet around me. Anyway, For a while she got put on cleaning crew team mostly for a time while I continue to work in the stand. When I put in for my two week noticed she did talk to me a bit more but not by much.
For my last day yesterday I got put on floor theater cleaning crew so I got to work on the same team as her. She acted like her normally quiet self (at least around me) for a while til we got to the last theater to clean. The movie, Taken 3, is still playing in the theater so I decide to go in and stand to the side near the front. While I'm watching the last few mins of the movie, she walks in. At first she tries to stand near me to my right but I have my broom over there. Instead what she does is go a little bit in front of me to a railing and literally bends over laying her head on her hands on the Railing. This of course gives me a wonderful view of her backside that is pointed directly at me. I knew something was up because that little voice in my head, courtesy of WM, said,"What the heck is she doing?". I found out later what the body language specifically meant:
"Bending over is a submissive appeasement posture when done facing away with the rump toward the recipient. It is an overt sexual invitation as it is a nonverbal request to “be mounted. Bending over might be thought of as an overt posture, but it often happens quite inconspicuously and quite subconsciously.Women who are receptive commonly act teasingly without even knowing it, as they emit nonverbal invitations to pursue on a purely emotional level. Women have also been shown to display sexually as broadcast signals where sexual message are sent out at random hoping to achieve the attention of worthy mates."
She remained like that for a few mins until the movie ended then tried making small talk with me while the theater emptied. While the theater is still being emptied she moves to one of the front row seats to sit down. I noticed from the corner of my eye that she is staring at me intently from the seat for like 2 mins. She starts talking to me again about stuff and even ask me if I will help her with taking out the garbage (Just the two of us). She has never asked me to help her out with something before so this was kinda of peculiar. After that we kinda of banter and start cleaning the theater with other people in the crew.
Unfortunately, before we were finished she got assigned to do another task, by the team leader, while I threw out the garbage by myself. I went to say my goodbyes to the team leader after I clocked out and noticed her staring at me while I did so. All this was weird to me. To go from her being quiet around me and no IOIs (Indicators of interest) to all of a sudden all these IOIs one after another. The only thing I can think of is that she has Alpha female like confidence in all context besides relationships or finding someone attractive. In that context she acts very shy and doesn't know how to proceed. I think since she knew it was my last day she just said," @#$% it" and decided to do what she could to show her interest. Unfortunately, since it was my last day at that job I didn't feel like I could do anything with this sudden show of interest. I don't think I've gotten to the point in WM where I am able to just suddenly be direct with my interest within a short time of the woman showing IOIs. Besides, my attitude right after leaving work was, "Really? You wait til my last day there (after 3 months) to start showing interest?". Anyway, I might still see her again because I'm thinking about signing back up for that job during the summer. Though I think I will be seeing more potential woman once I start College classes again in 10 days from now. Not going to get hung up on one girl even though she might be a 8.5/10 in my book. Something tells me that College girls+WM will = Awesomeness
Thought I would update since there's been a few developments since my last post. Yesterday was my last day at my movie theater job. I had sent in my two week notice 2 weeks earlier. The first thing I noticed is that when I told people when my last day was the women were mostly shocked and wanted to know why I was quitting. Its funny because I would have sworn I had told people a month earlier that I only needed this job for about 3 months. There was in particular this one woman who kept on saying, "I'm really going to miss you when you go". She would keep on saying this every once in a while to me during those final two weeks. She would also keep trying to talk to me every now and then.
Now, I should explain the major development I noticed but first some back story. There was only one girl I can think of at my work that I found attractive. It wasn't just her looks (Redhead with Blue eyes, and banging body) but she had a very expressive personality. If I had to guess based on observing her she seemed like she was a Alpha female. The only thing though is that through out all my time there (I started working there during stage 5 of AM6) she would get really quiet when we were in the same room together (Which for her seemed out of character). She barely even talked to me while we worked together. At the time I just chalked it up to the Dominance and Authority Auras in AM6 making her submissive and quiet around me. Anyway, For a while she got put on cleaning crew team mostly for a time while I continue to work in the stand. When I put in for my two week noticed she did talk to me a bit more but not by much.
For my last day yesterday I got put on floor theater cleaning crew so I got to work on the same team as her. She acted like her normally quiet self (at least around me) for a while til we got to the last theater to clean. The movie, Taken 3, is still playing in the theater so I decide to go in and stand to the side near the front. While I'm watching the last few mins of the movie, she walks in. At first she tries to stand near me to my right but I have my broom over there. Instead what she does is go a little bit in front of me to a railing and literally bends over laying her head on her hands on the Railing. This of course gives me a wonderful view of her backside that is pointed directly at me. I knew something was up because that little voice in my head, courtesy of WM, said,"What the heck is she doing?". I found out later what the body language specifically meant:
"Bending over is a submissive appeasement posture when done facing away with the rump toward the recipient. It is an overt sexual invitation as it is a nonverbal request to “be mounted. Bending over might be thought of as an overt posture, but it often happens quite inconspicuously and quite subconsciously.Women who are receptive commonly act teasingly without even knowing it, as they emit nonverbal invitations to pursue on a purely emotional level. Women have also been shown to display sexually as broadcast signals where sexual message are sent out at random hoping to achieve the attention of worthy mates."
She remained like that for a few mins until the movie ended then tried making small talk with me while the theater emptied. While the theater is still being emptied she moves to one of the front row seats to sit down. I noticed from the corner of my eye that she is staring at me intently from the seat for like 2 mins. She starts talking to me again about stuff and even ask me if I will help her with taking out the garbage (Just the two of us). She has never asked me to help her out with something before so this was kinda of peculiar. After that we kinda of banter and start cleaning the theater with other people in the crew.
Unfortunately, before we were finished she got assigned to do another task, by the team leader, while I threw out the garbage by myself. I went to say my goodbyes to the team leader after I clocked out and noticed her staring at me while I did so. All this was weird to me. To go from her being quiet around me and no IOIs (Indicators of interest) to all of a sudden all these IOIs one after another. The only thing I can think of is that she has Alpha female like confidence in all context besides relationships or finding someone attractive. In that context she acts very shy and doesn't know how to proceed. I think since she knew it was my last day she just said," @#$% it" and decided to do what she could to show her interest. Unfortunately, since it was my last day at that job I didn't feel like I could do anything with this sudden show of interest. I don't think I've gotten to the point in WM where I am able to just suddenly be direct with my interest within a short time of the woman showing IOIs. Besides, my attitude right after leaving work was, "Really? You wait til my last day there (after 3 months) to start showing interest?". Anyway, I might still see her again because I'm thinking about signing back up for that job during the summer. Though I think I will be seeing more potential woman once I start College classes again in 10 days from now. Not going to get hung up on one girl even though she might be a 8.5/10 in my book. Something tells me that College girls+WM will = Awesomeness
"I have no use of disciples. Let everyone be their own true follower" - Nietzsche