Here is an update, the girl at work I like, was eating lunch with a female co-worker I work with. Later on, that co-worker told me that Sarah (not her real name) was talking about me at lunch. The co-worker said that Sarah told her I liked her posts, her pictures all the time on Facebook. I was also told she is dating a doctor, but at the same time the co-worker made it sound like Sarah wasn't getting what she wanted from other guys. Plus, I believe Sarah told her all this stuff because she knew the co-worker would tell me.
Which to me is a good sign that she is starting to show more interest with me. I am currently 12 days in on AM stage 2, and I have to say I am starting to be more in the present moment. Furthermore, when I walk I seem to be walking more carefree or nonchalantly. I had an incident where I was in the mall, and you know those pushy salesmen that try to get you to buy things? Well, I had one like that try to get me fill out a card for pictures. I told him no thanks, but then he asked me if I had girl or kids, which I told him not right now. He tried to be a bit more pushy; however, I told not right now, but I would keep him in mind in the future. The point I am trying to get across is, I still have a bit of problem saying no. I was a bit more assertive than I have been in the past, so I am making progress in that area.
Which to me is a good sign that she is starting to show more interest with me. I am currently 12 days in on AM stage 2, and I have to say I am starting to be more in the present moment. Furthermore, when I walk I seem to be walking more carefree or nonchalantly. I had an incident where I was in the mall, and you know those pushy salesmen that try to get you to buy things? Well, I had one like that try to get me fill out a card for pictures. I told him no thanks, but then he asked me if I had girl or kids, which I told him not right now. He tried to be a bit more pushy; however, I told not right now, but I would keep him in mind in the future. The point I am trying to get across is, I still have a bit of problem saying no. I was a bit more assertive than I have been in the past, so I am making progress in that area.