11-16-2018, 03:24 PM
Had an online interaction with a woman today that makes me think the main culprit to girls going 180 on DMSI may be ASD.
I pitched a drink in her town (15 mins away. There is a bar chain there I really like) but she said "I'd prefer [your city], I know too many people here lol"
And it hit me that she didn't want people she knew seeing her with a guy. I think this is a big one. Especially having fast sex, I've heard it's a big trigger for ASD and a woman will avoid you afterwards getting "buyers remorse" even if you did everything right. So perhaps that's something Shannon can factor in. It is probably more important than the comfort and whatever else. If a woman knows she can get away with fast sex with a DMSI user, I'm betting she'll do it but it's just a theory based on the latest interaction.
I pitched a drink in her town (15 mins away. There is a bar chain there I really like) but she said "I'd prefer [your city], I know too many people here lol"
And it hit me that she didn't want people she knew seeing her with a guy. I think this is a big one. Especially having fast sex, I've heard it's a big trigger for ASD and a woman will avoid you afterwards getting "buyers remorse" even if you did everything right. So perhaps that's something Shannon can factor in. It is probably more important than the comfort and whatever else. If a woman knows she can get away with fast sex with a DMSI user, I'm betting she'll do it but it's just a theory based on the latest interaction.
