SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A)

[thor2014]

When suggesting a time the girl ghosted. I was trying a text method that some pua’s I know swear by but I e never gotten it to work. Rather it seems to set you up as her beta orbiter. Pissed at myself for using it when I know it doesn’t work. Still fascinates me that a girl can lose all interest in you based solely on what you say.

I heard that familiarity is very important to women.

If someone is a stranger, or new in her life, then saying one thing can scare her off forever / she will lose all interest.

But if you and her have known each other for months / years, and are familiar with one another, and you say the exact same thing (as the above situation), she will stay and not lose interest.

Well that’s what I’ve read anyway... Familiarity is a key ingredient to relationships with women.

You obviously are not following my journal. I’ve been on 2 dates with this girl and made out with her on date 2. 3 dates to sex is the beta norm so there’s no reason we couldn’t get together.

Also, in the future, please refrain from commenting here unless you know the background details. I’m getting tired of ignorant advice. Please read my signature as well.

From what I’ve read,

A lot of women need way more than just 2 dates to develop familiarity with a new guy.

I don’t know from experience. I’ve only been on 2 dates in my life, with the same woman, and she got naked without me telling her to and said she wants me to sleep with her.

But circumstances outside both our control stop any sex / relationship from occurring (group home being overprotective / over-the-top punitive anti-rape policies).


FYI, this isn’t really advice, just sharing thoughts and discussing.

But next time I will double read your journal, just to be clear on details.

I appreciate that, thank you.

However, since you are a virgin and I am not, we will take my experience over yours in this matter. I’ve always had sex within 2 dates, once within an hour.

If she is holding back sex after two dates she probably wants long term commitment or just enjoys your attention. I personally go for fast sex if nothing after two dates I lose interest and move on. I speak from experience .