10-13-2018, 09:03 AM
(This post was last modified: 10-13-2018, 09:04 AM by SargeMaximus.)
(10-13-2018, 09:01 AM)lano1106 Wrote: if she doesnt answer one of your question. It is because she has a concern. It is a big guess for a woman to invite a stranger over... Women will usually feel more comfortable to come over instead. If logistically not possible for you to invite, then propose a neutral meeting point. ie: Is there a coffee shop nearby your place that we could first meet and then decide what we do from there?
Also, here is 2 things. Especially if you plan to travel to see her, I find it important to have a phone # at least so that you don't do all the distance to end up blocked.
Secondly, I prefer to have girls come see me instead of me going to their place. Why? Because I want to leverage the commitment and consistency principle in my favor... ie: If the girl travel for 3 hours to meet and you only 5 minutes. Who is more invested?
Ah, fair enough. Thanks.
Unfortunately, I cannot host as I've said before and getting a hotel is out of the question. Next time I'll suggest a meeting place tho, and from there see if she's open to going back to hers. Would that work?
Thing is, that's why I asked her "Your place?" to see if she was ok with it. She said yeah so I assumed yes but this is good insight, thanks.
