10-08-2018, 10:38 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-08-2018, 10:39 PM by SargeMaximus.)
(10-08-2018, 10:21 PM)lano1106 Wrote:(10-08-2018, 09:23 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(10-08-2018, 08:36 PM)lano1106 Wrote: it is part of the online game. Numbers are in favor of women. See how easy it was for her to have a date with you? She can probably set 20+ coffee dates per hour.
Yeah but how many of those guys are on DMSI? Or doesn't it do anything?
(10-08-2018, 08:36 PM)lano1106 Wrote: So basically, she doesn't have to be kind and explain you why she is flaking on you. If she was doing it, she would waste a LOT of time. That might be rude but who cares when she can get 20+ dates with 20+ new guys. She just keep the most interesting candidates.
I have told many times, if you want to experience the kind of abundance that girls are having online, you need to give a try to Seeking Arrangements. I don't care that you are not into that type of relationship, the simple fact that the numbers are in favor of men. 1 guys for 25+ hot girls. That alone is highly educational. That or simply open a fake woman profile and see the huge volume of requests they get.
This doesn't make any sense to me because even if it's 1:25 on THAT site, they could simply open a POF profile and it would be POF ratio all over again. So the logic seems flawed there. Girls aren't THAT dumb, are they? They gotta know a website with 1:25 is just THAT website.
(10-08-2018, 08:36 PM)lano1106 Wrote: So the only way that I have found to keep your sanity on online dating is to minimize your investment/expectations. See it like it was a fishing afternoon. Fish might bite or maybe not.
finally, realize the minimal investment that the girl had to put to have a date invitation. Very little. There is nothing wrong with that but that means, that the date come easily and it came go away as easily.
Yeah well it was the same with that guy on that online blog you showed me. He offered the date easily too. Difference is: he got it for some reason. My convo up there is not that different from his.
(10-08-2018, 08:36 PM)lano1106 Wrote: One thing that I was doing when I was doing more online dating is to get nude pics from the girls. It has nothing to do with seeing the girl naked but if she agrees to share that type of pics, that establish the relation dynamics, it defines its type. She invest much more into you by sharing intimacy with you... It is not the pics themselves that is the endgoal but having her accepting to do it and submit to your request. Once you succeed doing that, you will rarely be flaked on as she will put you in a special category...
PM me on how to do this and I'll field test it.
Well, I'm a bit skeptical about how much DMSI can do for you in the digital realm. What you can convey about yourself is very limited compared to what you could do in person. It does have a bit of effect because it guides you what to write but DMSI isn't magical and when the odds are against you such as on online dating, they still are not in your favor even with DMSI.
If only women were trying seduce me irl. Closest I've been getting lately is hovering which I know ya'll say is a woman's way of approaching but I just don't care.
(10-08-2018, 10:21 PM)lano1106 Wrote: Yo obviously don't know what SA website is all about. Girls aren't dumb. For the specific purpose of the website, scarcity plays in favor of men.
How so?
(10-08-2018, 10:21 PM)lano1106 Wrote: Finally, PUA posting a successful online dating seduction, do you think that they have a 100% success rate? For every successful seduction, they must have failed dozens of time. They just don't show up their numerous failures. 100% is impossible. You cannot connect with everyone. The best you can do is becoming better.
Yes I know that. But I also know what it's like to go one day without sales techniques, and the next day using tactics get 3X the results magically as if a light switch has turned on. To me, any tactic worth anything should have the same effect in seduction other wise it isn't much of a tactic. Seems like it's just playing the numbers which any monkey from the congo can do.
(10-08-2018, 10:21 PM)lano1106 Wrote: I won't PM you about how to do that. I'm in no way an authority in the topic. I gave you a link on where you can learn that. That is pretty much all I will do in that regard.
Keep going
Why? Seriously, why not? Don't get all moral on me now. Does he say in the link you sent me? cause I never saw it.
Also I don't think I will. It seems to me online is a massive waste of time till I know what is the factor that I can change to improve my odds of success. I refuse to play the numbers like a horny retarded hippo.