09-29-2018, 09:00 AM
(This post was last modified: 09-29-2018, 09:58 AM by SargeMaximus.)
(09-29-2018, 08:12 AM)lano1106 Wrote: Ok, this is an interesting discussion.
I think that you are supposed to be 'non-reactive' for stuff that shouldn't upset you. For instance rejection. If you frame correctly the situation, it is her loss after all. Not your problem at all.
There are, however, situations that justify well deserved anger. If you express this well deserved anger, I think that this can instill respect for you in others.
This is news to me, and I can't entirely agree since in the last week or so in sales I used "non-reaction" to improve my state significantly despite some terribly rude people. I would have been justified in getting angry at some points but let it slide off my back and went on to get many sales.
(09-29-2018, 08:12 AM)lano1106 Wrote: Calibration is used by PUAs but I would think that it has been borrowed from psychology and has much broader application than just pick-up.
I feel like you have unreasonable expections on DMSI. Like do you think that the program is supposed to possess you and you only become a spectator of what is happening to you?
Instead, you should always do the actions that you think are best. DMSI will only affect your thinking only. and changing what you think is best. You are responsible of your actions
I don't have unrealistic expectations imo. Because it seems to me like it does nothing at all. I mean yes, it manifests (though, to be fair, I've been attracting women to approach me in person all my life. Way before subs), and there is the aura and celebrity effect (things I didn't have before) so it DOES do something, however, when it comes to getting sex with the women I want (which is why I'm using the program), there is nothing to show for it.
Especially if you're telling me that I am the one who has to calibrate and do everything consciously that I would normally do if running PUA, then I can even say my lays this year were because of me and NOT DMSI. Unless I'm missing something.
According to the sales page, DMSI is supposed to make the girls you want have sex with you as many times as you allow (for one thing). I'm not seeing that. I'm not seeing a LOT of what is on the sales page. Then Shannon says "It's up to you to do it" lol. I call BS on that. A tool doesn't require you to do what you buy the tool for. You have to steer it, yes, but you don't have to make it work. Imagine an alarm clock required you to wake yourself up in the morning and "take responsibility for waking up", it's ridiculous. It just works because that's what it was designed to do. Make a job easier. I'm not seeing that with DMSI. The job is seduction, and it's not any easier on DMSI. In fact, years ago when I first got into PUA, I had better results with women. I can say that because I know where I went wrong to not get the lay.
I think the main question is: What is DMSI supposed to do? Is it supposed to make us realize we have to do everything? Because I knew that already, thanks.
But I was under the impression it would enhance US so that our flirting would be more effective, our BL would be more persuasive, our sex would be more orgasm-inducing (I think I have that one) and our effect on the ladies would be more addictive to them. Not to mention it would influence women WE wanted to want US. It doesn't take a subliminal to get girls who already want you.
I'll repeat: it does not take a subliminal to get girls that already wanted you. It's easy to get girls that already want you.
So again, what does DMSI actually do? What is it SUPPOSED to do? And how can we get it there? That's all this is about. But the more I read from Shannon, the more it seems like it's not supposed to do anything we can't already do with PUA.
I ask myself: How will this tool assist me? I'm still not sure as Shannon is very vague and "take responsibility" isn't assistance.