06-08-2018, 08:46 PM
Well what about letting her lead so long as it serves my purpose? I've heard that's ok.
Anyhow, that may be a thing, but what do you do then? Say "no" just to appear like you're leading? That seems weaker to me than to be like "oh shit, she's inviting me home, and that's what I wanted, very good. I'll let this happen"
I dunno man. Should I have been like "nah, we're not going to your place, I'll text you later in the week" and ended the date? That seems stupid to me and way more "gamey" and much more of a technique.
Again, like I said, she was doing everything I wanted. Except maybe the fact that she played a movie on her tv which I didn't like that much.
Anyhow, that may be a thing, but what do you do then? Say "no" just to appear like you're leading? That seems weaker to me than to be like "oh shit, she's inviting me home, and that's what I wanted, very good. I'll let this happen"
I dunno man. Should I have been like "nah, we're not going to your place, I'll text you later in the week" and ended the date? That seems stupid to me and way more "gamey" and much more of a technique.
Again, like I said, she was doing everything I wanted. Except maybe the fact that she played a movie on her tv which I didn't like that much.
