11-08-2017, 02:39 PM
I think Shannon was speaking more solely on a sexually-compatible idea of frequency. He specifically uses the terminology "attract the most sexually attractive person possible", meaning your subconscious' idea of the perfect most sexually compatible partner in every feasible way.
This is one of the reasons why I'm out on the DMSI train. I actually don't want just sex. I'd much rather slowly get to know a woman over an extended period of time, let the tension, emotion, and overall bond grow, and then when sex finally comes, I'm hopeful it will be that much better.
My first sexual experience came while blooming from DMSI and also running AM's refresher stage. I was seriously unatttracted to the girl, met her on tinder, had about two drinks with her in the span of an hour before taking her back to my place. Not only was the sex really not that great, but I felt really fucked up and emotionally scarred inside from doing it. Looking back on it, it was actually a negative experience in my life, and not really the slightest bit positive.
If you really seem to be attracted to your HD--which seems to be the case, since it's been almost an entire year and you haven't moved on from her just yet--then DMSI will eventually win out. But AM6 and either SM or WM I'm assuming could have the same desired effect.
I'm planning on returning to subs very shortly and will be running the AM refresher stage with the express intention of running WM directly after. A lot of my life worries, doubts and fears have been oozing away from me with the help of alternative forms of therapy, and now I'd like to finally become that social magnetic playboy that I've always dreamed about. DMSI won't help me with that--it just makes you physically and sexually irresistibly attractive, in particular to the type of woman--both personality wise, attractiveness wise, and sexuality-wise (think dom/sub or fetishes and such)--that you are the most sexually compatible with. It could be that your HD fits with your physical standards of attraction, but sexually, subconsciously, she's not compatible. Maybe she's got a hidden fetish, or is more naturally submissive/dominant than you'd like. Your subconscious picked up on this and the anti-sniper is now driving her away, or at least positioning her in a state of flux, where you want her, and are creating on and off again feelings of attraction in her, but you can't seem to get over that hump with her yet because you're not completely compatible.
On DMSI, I noticed I became more sexually attractive, in the mirror I could see myself becoming more good looking, but it was in an almsot boy-bandish effeminte way. I noticed that the girls that smiled at me, stared at me, or said "hi" to me as I passed by them on the street wore aggressive styles of makeup. They seemed more aggressive and dominant. I'm much more "submissive" when it comes to sex--I like an aggressive woman who chases the man, I like sexualy aggressive "tigress" types of women who lust after me. But most women in the two cities I've lived in who are physically attractive to me are younger women living in NYC or LA--two of the most vapid, elite places in the world--so most girls my age who I'd be attracted to want "lions" or "alpha males".
I know I'm kind of going off on a tangent here--but I don't think DMSI is desined to get you your "soul mate"--far from that, in fact. It's designed to get you the girl you're most sexually compatible with, at the most raw, primal, carnal level. I think a "soul mate" is more about a woman you bond with just as strongly sexually as you do emotionally. That's exactly what I'm after in my life right now, and I think AM6 and something like WM may do that trick exponentially better than something like DMSI, which, as Mat stated, is purely designed for raw, carnal, sexual attraction.
This is one of the reasons why I'm out on the DMSI train. I actually don't want just sex. I'd much rather slowly get to know a woman over an extended period of time, let the tension, emotion, and overall bond grow, and then when sex finally comes, I'm hopeful it will be that much better.
My first sexual experience came while blooming from DMSI and also running AM's refresher stage. I was seriously unatttracted to the girl, met her on tinder, had about two drinks with her in the span of an hour before taking her back to my place. Not only was the sex really not that great, but I felt really fucked up and emotionally scarred inside from doing it. Looking back on it, it was actually a negative experience in my life, and not really the slightest bit positive.
If you really seem to be attracted to your HD--which seems to be the case, since it's been almost an entire year and you haven't moved on from her just yet--then DMSI will eventually win out. But AM6 and either SM or WM I'm assuming could have the same desired effect.
I'm planning on returning to subs very shortly and will be running the AM refresher stage with the express intention of running WM directly after. A lot of my life worries, doubts and fears have been oozing away from me with the help of alternative forms of therapy, and now I'd like to finally become that social magnetic playboy that I've always dreamed about. DMSI won't help me with that--it just makes you physically and sexually irresistibly attractive, in particular to the type of woman--both personality wise, attractiveness wise, and sexuality-wise (think dom/sub or fetishes and such)--that you are the most sexually compatible with. It could be that your HD fits with your physical standards of attraction, but sexually, subconsciously, she's not compatible. Maybe she's got a hidden fetish, or is more naturally submissive/dominant than you'd like. Your subconscious picked up on this and the anti-sniper is now driving her away, or at least positioning her in a state of flux, where you want her, and are creating on and off again feelings of attraction in her, but you can't seem to get over that hump with her yet because you're not completely compatible.
On DMSI, I noticed I became more sexually attractive, in the mirror I could see myself becoming more good looking, but it was in an almsot boy-bandish effeminte way. I noticed that the girls that smiled at me, stared at me, or said "hi" to me as I passed by them on the street wore aggressive styles of makeup. They seemed more aggressive and dominant. I'm much more "submissive" when it comes to sex--I like an aggressive woman who chases the man, I like sexualy aggressive "tigress" types of women who lust after me. But most women in the two cities I've lived in who are physically attractive to me are younger women living in NYC or LA--two of the most vapid, elite places in the world--so most girls my age who I'd be attracted to want "lions" or "alpha males".
I know I'm kind of going off on a tangent here--but I don't think DMSI is desined to get you your "soul mate"--far from that, in fact. It's designed to get you the girl you're most sexually compatible with, at the most raw, primal, carnal level. I think a "soul mate" is more about a woman you bond with just as strongly sexually as you do emotionally. That's exactly what I'm after in my life right now, and I think AM6 and something like WM may do that trick exponentially better than something like DMSI, which, as Mat stated, is purely designed for raw, carnal, sexual attraction.
Like snowfall, you cry a silent storm
Your tears paint rivers on this oaken wall. . .
-- Agalloch, The Mantle
Your tears paint rivers on this oaken wall. . .
-- Agalloch, The Mantle
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