(10-24-2015, 07:18 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote:(10-24-2015, 06:10 PM)eternitys_child Wrote: [in REAL LIFE now], my crush and I went out to eat,
After eating, we go to whole foods, hang out for a bit and get some stuff, then leave and go to a tea shop and share a pot of matcha tea. It was a really fun day and I REALLY enjoyed spending time with her and getting to know her.
I don't know what is holding me back from ACTUALLY asking her out.
So I turn to my online friends on Sub Talk who may understand where I'm coming from and can most likely give me constructive criticism -
Anyone got any advice on asking a girl out that you like and clearly lieks you back? like what do i say? i feel like an idiot who's inexperienced with what normal people would consider "standard knowledge"... Am I over thinking this?
I'm lost? You are asking for advice to ask her out and you already went out with her. I apologize in advance if I sound like I'm dense...
my bad, i meant i need advice to take the next step to make it "official" or to "seal the deal" so to speak. There is a fear of rejection going on, possibly fear of the unknown too. FEAR seems like it's creeping up on me big time these days.
ESSY, thanks or the point you bring up, I will definitely keep that in consideration however i feel like we can still have a relationship as long as both of our recovery is first and foremost. I should not get in the way of her recovery and she should not get in the way of mine.