06-25-2024, 01:43 AM
(06-24-2024, 05:31 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote:(06-24-2024, 05:02 PM)Darkness Wrote: To chime in: I have worked in restaurants as server.
If she’s said it’s okay, I would suggest to just leave it as is. Don’t ask her out again. Don’t do another check in either.
The next thing, you shot your shot with one server.
Keep your image kosher, don’t ask another.
Be chill, be social. If they get to see you, and you’ve been cool with no agenda, vibe with them.
Let them cross that line of hanging out.
The other server is at a different restaurant than the twins.
I agree that just being chill and social is all There is to do until I can figure a way to get my crush alone so I can talk to her as Shannon suggested.
Something will present itself sooner or later on that.
Not sure if it benefits you to talk about her as "your crush". I believe that may create the frame for yourself that cause oneitis, which may further make it harder to keep it relaxed and cool. There are plenty more fish in the sea.