06-23-2024, 09:11 PM
(06-23-2024, 07:24 PM)Shannon Wrote:(06-23-2024, 02:50 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: So this is an example of what you're doing wrong. Instead of trying to fix it, you're doom and gloom and running away. Are you really that afraid of trying to communicate with her? Is communication really this hard for you? Making things worse is not very likely to matter at this point. You're almost at the "worst". Why wouldn't you try to make things better? Communicate with her, dammit!
Okay that did sound doom and gloom. I'm usually not like that.
I'm not afraid of talking to her.
I'll talk to her and see if things can be fixed.
You need to understand what her point of view is and how it differs from yours. She needs to understand your point of view. Clear up whatever misunderstandings there are.
Alright. I will try this way which is really the best way.
I forgot to say that I ate at another restaurant today at a different restaurant.
I don't eat there as often as the one with the twins.
I have seen a server that is gorgeous to me. So she got close to me and I just asked her where's her section at. She said they don't really have sections but I can request a server. I asked will she be my server and she said Yeah, I'll be your server just pick a table and tell the hostess.
So that's what I did. She came to the table and she told her name and I told her mine.
She was sweet and attentive much like the twins were at first.
She got pretty close to me most times she came to the table and she finessed the things on the table in front of me. She bent all the way over that table.
It was definitely intentional because she didn't have to do that at all.
As I paid she popped up next to me out of freaking nowhere to tell me bye and I am sure she used my name. Not gonna lie it sorta caught me off guard.
I told her bye but used her name. And I went home.