Rock's X4A-1511 journal

[Shannon]

Thanks. I'm not the best texter either and I  agree it's a great way to miscommunication.

Keeping texting fun and to bare minimum and talking to her in person is usually my strategy too.

I think it's solid advice and I appreciate it.

I'll report back soon.

@Shannon

So when The server saw me she said Hey Rocky and told me sit where I want.

When she brought me a menu I asked if she got my text.

She said she did but she didn't have time to reply cus she was at work and she worked a long time.

She told me I'd forgotten my jacket and she waited for me to come back to get it. she brought it to me.

I ate and she checked on me as usual and made usual chit chat.

She stood in front of my table, looked out the window and said it's pretty out and I said yeah, I may go to the park later. She said it's a good day to go.

I could have invited Her to the Park but I don't wanna seem too eager or needy and I needed to do other things to do.

She rang me up and I thanked her for taking care of my jacket, I'm glad it was in good hands.

She replied Yeah but it was that child like excited yea sort of like how Macho man Randy savage says yeah.

So I finished paying and she said have a good day and I said you too, cya.
I assume she saved my number. 

I'm not gonna text her again unless she texts me.

I'll talk to her at the restaurant.

I'd figure next week I may invite her to do something in person.

I've made progress but I'm not sure what to do now.

Should I increase x4a 1511 up 2 hours a night or switch formats?

What do you suppose that would do?  It looks to me like you don't know how to move things forward once you have her interest.  Is more X4A going to change how she responds?  Maybe.  But it's a good idea to learn how to move things forward as well.

It looks to me like you are developing one-itis.  This one is the only one you think you can get.  She's not, and doing that will kill things.  In this situation, do what comes naturally, and let the chips fall where they may.  If you screw up and lose, then learn what you can from it and move on.  If not, then you got what you wanted.