04-24-2024, 11:32 AM
(04-24-2024, 02:02 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote:(04-23-2024, 11:12 PM)Shannon Wrote: In your shoes, I would go eat as usual, and maybe ask her if she got your text. What you texted may or may not get a reply. So if she got your text, then start asking her questions via text. Not too frequently, but get a conversation rolling, and make it interesting. I find that texting is a great way to miscommunicate, so I vastly prever in-person if possible, or voice otherwise. But don't be obtrusive, don't be needy, and keep it fun and playful. And by "don't be needy", I mean, don't be concerned if she doesn't reply, and don't try again if she doesn't. Just assume something was not aligned, and talk to her in person next.
That is what I would do. That may not be the best possible advice, as I am not the world's best text game dude. But it's what I would do.
Thanks. I'm not the best texter either and I agree it's a great way to miscommunication.
Keeping texting fun and to bare minimum and talking to her in person is usually my strategy too.
I think it's solid advice and I appreciate it.
I'll report back soon.
@Shannon
So when The server saw me she said Hey Rocky and told me sit where I want.
When she brought me a menu I asked if she got my text.
She said she did but she didn't have time to reply cus she was at work and she worked a long time.
She told me I'd forgotten my jacket and she waited for me to come back to get it. she brought it to me.
I ate and she checked on me as usual and made usual chit chat.
She stood in front of my table, looked out the window and said it's pretty out and I said yeah, I may go to the park later. She said it's a good day to go.
I could have invited Her to the Park but I don't wanna seem too eager or needy and I needed to do other things to do.
She rang me up and I thanked her for taking care of my jacket, I'm glad it was in good hands.
She replied Yeah but it was that child like excited yea sort of like how Macho man Randy savage says yeah.
So I finished paying and she said have a good day and I said you too, cya.
I assume she saved my number.
I'm not gonna text her again unless she texts me.
I'll talk to her at the restaurant.
I'd figure next week I may invite her to do something in person.
I've made progress but I'm not sure what to do now.
Should I increase x4a 1511 up 2 hours a night or switch formats?