10-16-2017, 09:13 PM
(10-16-2017, 07:29 PM)Determined Wrote: Better out than in. Those emotions needed to be expressed. Be happy you let that happen.
Whether you acknowledge it or not, you seem to be in the grieving process.
LET.IT.HAPPEN
The worst thing you can do is call your grieving "beta and weak" in fact it's quite manly to grieve openly and unabashedly. To really experience the depths of your own despair is the bravest and most powerful thing you can do when faced with a hit. To grieve intensely is the truest way to do it "like a man".
Take the hit, feel it, acknowledge the loss and move on.
You also might want to educate yourself on the grieving process. It's something society never teaches us which we all have to endure at some points in our lives from loss of loved ones, to losing a job or a bad breakup. You'll find yourself coming out much stronger for it.
Thank you! I feel much better now that i know that i did the right thing to let it out.
INTJ