Random sub adventures - Sub of the day: DMSI 3.3.2

[Shannon]

Ben, have you run EM? I don't recall you saying that you have. How do you know that this will be his experience? Just because it's been yours doesn't mean that is a universal truth. Especially since he is running EM and getting good results with it.

The experiences you have had in the past sound like his. EM is designed to overcome those. Which seem to be what he is experiencing. Why try to tell him he will fail in some way in the future, or not keep achieving the results he is getting? There's no reason that he has to experience any less success than he is.

No, but I did alot of clearing out limitations around that and it's unrealistic to every single time you goto the gym to be completely pumped for it. The part where I said "you will" was "sometimes you'll be pumped to workout".

There's no point I said he would fail, in fact I said the way of overcoming it is getting so deeply in the habit that you just go anyway, which is a success. I think telling him that he will constantly always be totally excited and pumped going to the gym is more setting someone up for failure than saying there might be some times when you don't but you still go anyway.

You do realize that your definition of unrealistic is a self limiting belief? The point of this sub is to remove and overcome those. So your definition of "unrealistic" may apply to you, but not him. That's what I'm talking about.

Before I ran DMSI 3.1, it was "unrealistic" by my own definition for me to think I'd ever be dating the girl I am, but now I am dating her. The point is, "unrealistic" is a limit you place on yourself. What is realistic depends on what you allow to become real.