New thread. Still waiting on Overcome anxiety, but it seems likely I'll be running more AM in some form soon.
First related post is HERE.
The refresher seems to be treating me well so far. At work I'm definitely more decisive and even somewhat commanding, though it's still just some subtle subcommunication and not barking orders or bashing people. I had the thought yesterday that I do like my life - it seems that hasn't actually been clear since I've been feeling so out of control lately.
Interestingly it seems either I'm more social, or people talk to be more in a light fun casual way. I'm not feeling particularly social, so it could an effect of them acting out the slightly increased tension and respect. Or it could be that I'm not so overly anxious about performing socially, so now it's easier. Its just odd that socializing feels so much simpler and easier on AM than on DMSI. Especially on B I didn't talk at all - felt so weird I was just starting at people.
After work I have been tired and feeling some despair over how everything is so hard and to hard, somehow. It does pass when I go into it and experience it for a while. Also noticed something I used to do on AM before: if at first I'm feeling solid and then I'll start to lose that feeling, I'll try to maintain it and the effects by toughening up. Now I clearly identify that as resistance, and I'll search for the underlying negative feeling that I'm toughening up against. So in a way I guess all this healing and learning to feel does help, at least in this way.
First related post is HERE.
The refresher seems to be treating me well so far. At work I'm definitely more decisive and even somewhat commanding, though it's still just some subtle subcommunication and not barking orders or bashing people. I had the thought yesterday that I do like my life - it seems that hasn't actually been clear since I've been feeling so out of control lately.
Interestingly it seems either I'm more social, or people talk to be more in a light fun casual way. I'm not feeling particularly social, so it could an effect of them acting out the slightly increased tension and respect. Or it could be that I'm not so overly anxious about performing socially, so now it's easier. Its just odd that socializing feels so much simpler and easier on AM than on DMSI. Especially on B I didn't talk at all - felt so weird I was just starting at people.
After work I have been tired and feeling some despair over how everything is so hard and to hard, somehow. It does pass when I go into it and experience it for a while. Also noticed something I used to do on AM before: if at first I'm feeling solid and then I'll start to lose that feeling, I'll try to maintain it and the effects by toughening up. Now I clearly identify that as resistance, and I'll search for the underlying negative feeling that I'm toughening up against. So in a way I guess all this healing and learning to feel does help, at least in this way.
Thoughts, opinions and beliefs subject to change without prior notice.