Question about the Ego Balancing

[AlphaRomeo]

I think I will read that book by AlphaRomeo, I may learn some stuff. But until now I didn't see anything new. The way he ""insulted"" this girl can be questionable. But then to me he didn't care about the girl which prove that he kept the control. To me his "angers" was legitimate because she was trying to manipulate him, he didn't like that so he acted like that. At this point he could have gone back on his words and fu* her. That is truly someone who choose who he really want to spend time with. No neediness on his part, his word are trustworthy, he really do what he tells unlike her who is playing game.

While it can also be a good idea to play the game, "not reacting", I also like what he did. He did it from a standpoint that to him woman are human like man, so he treats them like other humans. If they disrespect him then he get mad like he would do with a man. That is 2 way of seeing things, both can work. To me though I don't think there are a lot of guys who would have refused to see her again. It demonstrate someone who is genuinely confident, and can decide to remove woman from his friend list if he feels like it.

This thread have gone wild for no reason. Why all this reacting. Did we need that? Can we talk without getting upset like that. I should have use less provocative words but I didn't have time to explain myself. I thought it wouldn't have gone this far. I was wrong. It proves that we have still a lot to learn.

"Misogyny" "Afzal's rape comment" Can we stop altering reality please!

Afzal keep your story for yourself next time, this forum is not ready to listen.

Yes, I highly recommend Dr.Paul´s programs (most of them are dvd home study programs from his seminars but he has written books too), especially Mature Masculine Power and Omega Male Program. I am sure you will learn new stuff from him (I know I did) . You get some critical information from him that pretty much all the "pua teachers" don´t know. He is a psychologist who has contributed a lot to his field + he is also bit older than vast majority of "pua teachers" so you will get highly developed and mature view on topics like social interaction, male-female dynamics, role of each brain (reptilian, limpic (mammalian) and neo/cerebral cortex) in several aspects of life (career, dating, love, friendships etc.), etc.

[koshas]

You guys need to lighten up.

I do not agree with the exchange and his comment.

He's 23 years old,

[koshas]

I think I will read that book by AlphaRomeo, I may learn some stuff. But until now I didn't see anything new. The way he ""insulted"" this girl can be questionable. But then to me he didn't care about the girl which prove that he kept the control. To me his "angers" was legitimate because she was trying to manipulate him, he didn't like that so he acted like that. At this point he could have gone back on his words and fu* her. That is truly someone who choose who he really want to spend time with. No neediness on his part, his word are trustworthy, he really do what he tells unlike her who is playing game.

While it can also be a good idea to play the game, "not reacting", I also like what he did. He did it from a standpoint that to him woman are human like man, so he treats them like other humans. If they disrespect him then he get mad like he would do with a man. That is 2 way of seeing things, both can work. To me though I don't think there are a lot of guys who would have refused to see her again. It demonstrate someone who is genuinely confident, and can decide to remove woman from his friend list if he feels like it.

This thread have gone wild for no reason. Why all this reacting. Did we need that? Can we talk without getting upset like that. I should have use less provocative words but I didn't have time to explain myself. I thought it wouldn't have gone this far. I was wrong. It proves that we have still a lot to learn.

"Misogyny" "Afzal's rape comment" Can we stop altering reality please!

Afzal keep your story for yourself next time, this forum is not ready to listen.

Yes, I highly recommend Dr.Paul´s programs (most of them are dvd home study programs from his seminars but he has written books too), especially Mature Masculine Power and Omega Male Program. I am sure you will learn new stuff from him (I know I did) . You get some critical information from him that pretty much all the "pua teachers" don´t know. He is a psychologist who has contributed a lot to his field + he is also bit older than vast majority of "pua teachers" so you will get highly developed and mature view on topics like social interaction, male-female dynamics, role of each brain (reptilian, limpic (mammalian) and neo/cerebral cortex) in several aspects of life (career, dating, love, friendships etc.), etc.

His mind os program is good also.

[JackOfHearts]

You guys need to lighten up.

I do not agree with the exchange and his comment.

He's 23 years old,

Who, what exchange are you talking about?

[koshas]

You guys need to lighten up.

I do not agree with the exchange and his comment.

He's 23 years old,

Who, what exchange are you talking about?

His exchange with the girl.

[AfzalG]

I think I will read that book by AlphaRomeo, I may learn some stuff. But until now I didn't see anything new. The way he ""insulted"" this girl can be questionable. But then to me he didn't care about the girl which prove that he kept the control. To me his "angers" was legitimate because she was trying to manipulate him, he didn't like that so he acted like that. At this point he could have gone back on his words and fu* her. That is truly someone who choose who he really want to spend time with. No neediness on his part, his word are trustworthy, he really do what he tells unlike her who is playing game.

While it can also be a good idea to play the game, "not reacting", I also like what he did. He did it from a standpoint that to him woman are human like man, so he treats them like other humans. If they disrespect him then he get mad like he would do with a man. That is 2 way of seeing things, both can work. To me though I don't think there are a lot of guys who would have refused to see her again. It demonstrate someone who is genuinely confident, and can decide to remove woman from his friend list if he feels like it.

This thread have gone wild for no reason. Why all this reacting. Did we need that? Can we talk without getting upset like that. I should have use less provocative words but I didn't have time to explain myself. I thought it wouldn't have gone this far. I was wrong. It proves that we have still a lot to learn.

"Misogyny" "Afzal's rape comment" Can we stop altering reality please!

Afzal keep your story for yourself next time, this forum is not ready to listen.

Haha yeah I see, I didnt thought that there will be so much tears some of the comments here I would have expected from the female user but never from guys, why they think they know how a high status women would react? are they such a women or do they say these things because it is written in a book by a psychologist who lost virginty with 40 and jerks of to evil angel and brazzers hos 5 times a day

I should really have stayed unreactive like all the other looser she met before, guys telling me this should stay unreactive too if someone tries to take their b*** in a club and then we will see if the girls finds this alpha ^^

why do the experts here think they know how every woman thinks? By the way the same girl that these members try to protect likes to be whipped,beaten and pissed on by men during intercourse in the forest what does your books tell you about this? :angel:

But I am glad some guys here understand what really happend like you alpha, you described perfectly what dynamics where involved.

PS: Didn´t know that I am 23

Edit: And guys I really dont give a f*** if you agree with me or not just wanted to ask shanon a question and not discuss with you about my method.

For all the other guys who pmed me: I recommend the two books

1. Milner - Black Players The Secret World of black Pimps
2. Mickey Royal - The Pimp Game - Instructional Guide

I rather read books by guys who had tons of women giving them everything they have, than reading books written by poeple calling themselves doctors and reading books only two recylcle this theorectical knowledge and write another book ^^

[AlphaRomeo]

I think I will read that book by AlphaRomeo, I may learn some stuff. But until now I didn't see anything new. The way he ""insulted"" this girl can be questionable. But then to me he didn't care about the girl which prove that he kept the control. To me his "angers" was legitimate because she was trying to manipulate him, he didn't like that so he acted like that. At this point he could have gone back on his words and fu* her. That is truly someone who choose who he really want to spend time with. No neediness on his part, his word are trustworthy, he really do what he tells unlike her who is playing game.

While it can also be a good idea to play the game, "not reacting", I also like what he did. He did it from a standpoint that to him woman are human like man, so he treats them like other humans. If they disrespect him then he get mad like he would do with a man. That is 2 way of seeing things, both can work. To me though I don't think there are a lot of guys who would have refused to see her again. It demonstrate someone who is genuinely confident, and can decide to remove woman from his friend list if he feels like it.

This thread have gone wild for no reason. Why all this reacting. Did we need that? Can we talk without getting upset like that. I should have use less provocative words but I didn't have time to explain myself. I thought it wouldn't have gone this far. I was wrong. It proves that we have still a lot to learn.

"Misogyny" "Afzal's rape comment" Can we stop altering reality please!

Afzal keep your story for yourself next time, this forum is not ready to listen.

Haha yeah I see, I didnt thought that there will be so much tears some of the comments here I would have expected from the female user but never from guys, why they think they know how a high status women would react? are they such a women or do they say these things because it is written in a book by a psychologist who lost virginty with 40 and jerks of to evil angel and brazzers hos 5 times a day

I should really have stayed unreactive like all the other looser she met before, guys telling me this should stay unreactive too if someone tries to take their b*** in a club and then we will see if the girls finds this alpha ^^

why do the experts here think they know how every woman thinks? By the way the same girl that these members try to protect likes to be whipped,beaten and pissed on by men during intercourse in the forest what does your books tell you about this? :angel:

But I am glad some guys here understand what really happend like you alpha, you described perfectly what dynamics where involved.

PS: Didn´t know that I am 23

Edit: And guys I really dont give a f*** if you agree with me or not just wanted to ask shanon a question and not discuss with you about my method.

For all the other guys who pmed me: I recommend the two books

1. Milner - Black Players The Secret World of black Pimps
2. Mickey Royal - The Pimp Game - Instructional Guide

I rather read books by guys who had tons of women giving them everything they have, than reading books written by poeple calling themselves doctors and reading books only two recylcle this theorectical knowledge and write another book ^^

Your posts are so much of full of words like b*** and pimps + general hatred towards women (suppressed, unresolved anger about something in yourself or past) that it´s difficult to take you seriously.
pimps and b****s? Too much listening rap perhaps?

"By the way the same girl that these members try to protect likes to be whipped,beaten and pissed on by men during intercourse in the forest what does your books tell you about this?"
- It tells that she is a perfect match for you.

btw, I bet you think David Shade is loser too...and Mark Cunningham...?

On more serious note, you need some help.

[Benjamin]

Guys, while I did think some of the initial exchange he talked about was extreme... that is no reason for me or any of you to start overreacting and attacking him.

Interestingly i've noticed a common pattern with insults on this forum such as "you think you're alpha, but you're not" etc.. and fair enough you guys pointing stuff like that out, but I know you can do it without attacking or insulting somebody... or atleast I hope you can despite what i'm seeing so far in this thread.

You might disagree and not like the exchange, but you're not adding to it by attacking him. You're fine to point out why you think it's wrong and what he could improve but the way it's being done right now isn't conductive to the conversation. So calm it down a bit and discuss it like adults without flaming each other.

[Benjamin]

I guess my last post was too subtle.. so Irreplacable, cut the crap. You've been warned several times now. If you two really want to discuss it and are both fine with it getting heated then use PM.. but no flame wars here.

For now i'm locking this thread as it's getting out of hand.