05-05-2016, 06:56 AM
Eventually, you'll have results like girls checking you out etc. But it doesn't even matter that much if you can't approach girls yourself. I keep seeing a lot of guys get into all types of hypnosis and stuff to make girls come to them. It doesn't really work that way. Girls are more scared of rejection than you, true story. And the more attractive you are, the more scary it is.
It's a numbers game, pure and simple. You could approach women with or without subs and have an active sex life. So while it works and you'll know when it works, I just don't see any trade offs between being sexy and approaching girls.
If you're shy, I get it. There are things you can do to reduce rejection. Typical scenario I do, walked into a coffee shop with a buddy. Outside there's a hot girl, to get her attention I speak loudly to my friend "yeah, that was fun" and look at her. Inside while ordering, I look out the store window and she looks at me again. Now she's familiar with me and showed interest, and I'll engage conversation with her on the way out. My friend had no clue what was going on...
It's a numbers game, pure and simple. You could approach women with or without subs and have an active sex life. So while it works and you'll know when it works, I just don't see any trade offs between being sexy and approaching girls.
If you're shy, I get it. There are things you can do to reduce rejection. Typical scenario I do, walked into a coffee shop with a buddy. Outside there's a hot girl, to get her attention I speak loudly to my friend "yeah, that was fun" and look at her. Inside while ordering, I look out the store window and she looks at me again. Now she's familiar with me and showed interest, and I'll engage conversation with her on the way out. My friend had no clue what was going on...
