Interesting. WM is taking me to the second one, and honestly i'm enjoying my interactions with girls way more than ever. Just enjoying them, appreciating them, having fun, talking to them heaps without even thinking of the time that's passed.
Not long ago I wouldn't have understood that paradigm at all and would have argued against it in favour of 'having pua skill' or whatever. But now I realize alot of that in fact disconnects you from the natural connection you have with sexy girls.
I'd take this appreciation, actually enjoying girls any day over trying to be really aloof, 'too cool for school', trying to take girls down a notch (e.g fucking negs), trying to be a hardass kind of thing. All of that I never really enjoyed.
Pretty much i'm just embracing my love for girls, embracing my naughty side and going with it, appreciating them, enjoying everything about them.. the amount of times girls have called me naughty or evil recently with big smiles on their faces i've lost count. This way brings much more pleasure, much more connection, much more fun. I've just had the thought that maybe I shouldn't do SM because it might take this away and I love it, so WM again could be the go. After all my hesitation to do it and thinking I didn't want what WM would bring.. i'm now seeing it's exactly what I wanted!
Not long ago I wouldn't have understood that paradigm at all and would have argued against it in favour of 'having pua skill' or whatever. But now I realize alot of that in fact disconnects you from the natural connection you have with sexy girls.
I'd take this appreciation, actually enjoying girls any day over trying to be really aloof, 'too cool for school', trying to take girls down a notch (e.g fucking negs), trying to be a hardass kind of thing. All of that I never really enjoyed.
Pretty much i'm just embracing my love for girls, embracing my naughty side and going with it, appreciating them, enjoying everything about them.. the amount of times girls have called me naughty or evil recently with big smiles on their faces i've lost count. This way brings much more pleasure, much more connection, much more fun. I've just had the thought that maybe I shouldn't do SM because it might take this away and I love it, so WM again could be the go. After all my hesitation to do it and thinking I didn't want what WM would bring.. i'm now seeing it's exactly what I wanted!
