Perceptions of understanding

[smoothsam]

Seems to me you're coming to terms with reality lol.

I've made this realization (and I'm sure you will too if you keep trying to get what you want), and it's this:

You can't always get what you want... lol, jk.

It's this: In order to get what you WANT to get, you have to be what gets that.

This is the simplest truth and when it comes to women, I see guys always stating the fact without ever acting on it: "Girls just go for JERKS!" and they say it like the universe should suddenly change so that girls go for guys like them. Talk about f*cked up mentality. Truth is, if girls go for jerks, BE A F*CKING JERK THEN or accept that you simply can't do it.

There is no in between. You can't be nice and be alpha, can't be light but be dark, can't be positive but be negative, can't be up but down.

The greatest thing you can ever do (and, believe it or not, it's your Ego that resists this stuff, not this stuff resulting from the ego) is to grow up and take a good hard look at the world. Observe as an ego-less monk would.

see girls with jerks? What would an ego-less monk say? "Why can't they like nice guys like me?!" or would he say "Ah... girls like jerks."

One is an emotional tantrum, the other is seeing things as they are.

Now, you can be either, but you can't be both. So choose.

Is it possible be nice one moment and not so nice the next? You are who you are. The only constant is change. You will get as far as you accept and allow yourself to be and go.

-Sam