An alpha set himself as a priority, but that does not mean that he is an immoral, heartless user of women. On the contrary, a true alpha is considerate of the women he's dating/romping/teasing/flirting. I believe a true alpha will not pursue a woman to whom he is not attracted, and at the same time, he will not abuse a naive girl's crush just to put a notch on the bedpost.
You're doing fine, Javier. Your virginity is not hampering you badly. You have high standards, and you expect the woman who shares your bed to meet them. At least, that's how I see it.
My definition of a Nice Guy is a guy who makes implied contracts with women. He'd cancel his vacation to help her move, hoping for affection. He'll spend large amounts of money, seeking some kind of return on his investment. He'll hang out in the friendzone hoping she'll see that he's a wonderful guy with so much beta to offer.
I haven't seen you as a Nice Guy.
You're doing fine, Javier. Your virginity is not hampering you badly. You have high standards, and you expect the woman who shares your bed to meet them. At least, that's how I see it.
My definition of a Nice Guy is a guy who makes implied contracts with women. He'd cancel his vacation to help her move, hoping for affection. He'll spend large amounts of money, seeking some kind of return on his investment. He'll hang out in the friendzone hoping she'll see that he's a wonderful guy with so much beta to offer.
I haven't seen you as a Nice Guy.
Fear is a liar.
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. -- Ernest Hemingway
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. -- Ernest Hemingway