02-26-2021, 12:19 PM
(02-26-2021, 06:38 AM)Raykon Wrote: It’s interesting because I’ve banged four women but the one that I’ve been talking to the most (since the first week) 2 months now, and been on 4-5 dates and met her dad and grandma. She hasn’t put out yet, she’s making me wait. The most I got was making out and licked her boobs once. And briefly touched her pussy with my hand and had her bare butt showing.
My cousin who lives in Bogotá says good girls here will make you wait until they know your 100 Percent serious About a relationship with them. He said it’s normal. And to not worry. The sex is going to be so great. This is the one that we are talking about becoming official potentionally if we continue to date and things go well like they have, our last date was ten hours long. We both have a pitbull named after dragon ball z, mine is named Goku hers is named Yamcha.
And we both have two big dogs. We’re similar in allot of ways.
A woman like the one you're describing who makes you wait for sex in a serious committed relationship is usually one who has self respect and self esteem. She's also got self control and she's not very likely going to sleep around on you. They're usually great wife material. That said...
If she wants to wait until marriage to have sex is a lot different than if she wants to wait until a committed relationship for sex. In my opinion, waiting for marriage to have sex, while good in theory, is usually a bad idea in actual practice because it removes one of the most important aspects of determining one's long term compatibility with someone, which is sexual compatibility, and delays it until after you can't easily choose someone else. I believe it's very important to know how sexually compatible you are with each other before making a permanent commitment like marriage. Marriages usually end because of either lack of money, or one person not having their sexual needs met by the other.
So if she's waiting for a committed non-marriage relationship for sex, that's good. If she wants marriage before sex... I would think long and hard on that one.
And just because she seems like a good long term relationship candidate doesn't mean the sex will be great, or even good. Let go of that expectation, because it's possible that you are completely incompatible sexually for any number of reasons. You can't know how good the sex will be until you've had sex with her several times at least. So I suggest you take a neutral stance of "no expectations and no knowledge" on sex until you have first hand verification.
Best wishes. I hope she is what she seems to be. It would be nice to see you find a serious, happy relationship that satisfies you more than sex for fun does.
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