(07-12-2017, 07:23 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Fair enough. Well then we can say DMSI isn't working for me and I need to learn more pick up. >>
It's so confusing tho because like I said in the beginning of this response: I was following PUA concepts: be unfazed, go for what you want, be persistent. lol.
But then the advice does a complete 180.
Want to know my latest theory? here it is: if I would have banged her all that I did would be excused and I'd been hailed as a boss.
I really don't trust most of the advice I'm getting nowadays because of that.
There are a lot of subtleties in seduction.
I think that journaling is a very good tool to learn from your experiences. You obvioulsy did something very good with the girl to end up making out with her.
Perseverence is one thing.
Willingness to leave on your own terms if it doesn't work your way is another.
Also note that making out is seduction. You have met a LMR. Your skills to overcome them will improve as you get more of them.
Several concepts comes to mind.
2 steps forward, 1 step back. You back up before she object.
Challenge her: hmmm. There is obvioulsy no attraction between us. There is no reason we should continue this. You couldn't handle me anyway (said with a smile...)
