AOS and BIABW are some of the most difficult for people to see the results of, even when they work. This is due to a phenomenon known as "male pattern blindness". Men and women communicate in very different ways, and typically, each expects the other to communicate in their "language". Men communicate very directly, boldly, bluntly, and in a to-the-point manner, whereas women communicate in much less direct ways, often through actions, movements, small things, implied information and hints. When a man does not know that women communicate this way, they will completely miss these communications, and as a result, believe "nothing is happening" when she may be signalling like crazy.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!