(06-23-2016, 08:23 PM)Benjamin Wrote: Wow.. that is the most awesome way to lose your virginity ever! My friend who was a virgin until 30 we used to goto clubs. He was talking to some girls on a bench after and I went over and talked to one and made out with her, we couldn't go inside their house cos the other girl he was talking to her ex was there or something. But I seen my girl the next day and she said "when my friend found out your friend was a virgin she wanted to take his virginity". Interesting.
I sadly haven't had a 3some at all.
Yeah, virginity is not something to be shy or shameful of. Here in the States - and likely most places - it's highly valued. I was always very proud of it, frankly. I never said, "I am going to be a virgin until marriage," but I still publicly made it clear - it had VALUE to me. I really think that's what drove the whole experience. I valued it, they valued me, and the rest is history. Too bad my lady-roomie had a thyroid issue a few years later that turned into a building. But I'm sure that mouth still works - she could suck a golf ball through a garden hose!
Seriously, though, the craziest thing about it was I had NO expectations. I never did anything to consciously manipulate or make it happen. No "new age" anything, no law-of-attraction, no hypnosis, no subliminals. It just "happened" to me.