03-07-2013, 07:12 AM
Hi Subeternal
Just read your post with great interest.
The most obvious thing that I noticed with ASC was that I too have stopped moaning and complaining about everything and everyone. As you so rightly said...a confident person dose not feel threatened by the negativity of others.
I think maybe the reason your mother might be avoiding listening at the moment could be because she is aware of the changes and maybe feels a bit out of her depth...perhaps she feels more comfortable with her old, familiar ways of dealing with things.
Maybe her growing self confidence has made her realise that there are other aspects of her life that could be changed...she might feel frightened to face up to what needs to be done.
Or maybe she just physically needs to rest her brain for a while.
Anyway I do hope she starts listening again soon...things can only get better.
Just read your post with great interest.
The most obvious thing that I noticed with ASC was that I too have stopped moaning and complaining about everything and everyone. As you so rightly said...a confident person dose not feel threatened by the negativity of others.
I think maybe the reason your mother might be avoiding listening at the moment could be because she is aware of the changes and maybe feels a bit out of her depth...perhaps she feels more comfortable with her old, familiar ways of dealing with things.
Maybe her growing self confidence has made her realise that there are other aspects of her life that could be changed...she might feel frightened to face up to what needs to be done.
Or maybe she just physically needs to rest her brain for a while.
Anyway I do hope she starts listening again soon...things can only get better.
Will it matter in 10minutes, 10hrs, 10days, 10weeks, 10months, 10years.
