06-03-2013, 09:03 PM
(06-03-2013, 03:56 PM)K-Train Wrote:(06-03-2013, 01:20 PM)Tiesto Wrote: I'm going through some serious emotional rollercoaster at the moment, there is this girl in my office which I really like, in the beginning I don't have feelings for her at all, but after a while I grew to like her more and more, now I flirt with her everyday. She already has a boyfriend, so I realized that I shouldn't be flirting with her, but I just can't stop doing it, now I like her so much, that I feel really needy, and weak. This is a bad situation for me, because I'm definitely losing control of my own emotional state, what should I do to get rid of this feeling and neediness towards her, any advice guys?
Should I drop OGSF and LM and go back to AM 5.0 perhaps?
1.) Pick out one unattractive thing about her and dwell on it. This is so that you can see her as being just another girl and another human being with flaws.
2.) Understand that if she pulls away and says "no" you could get hurt emotionally and if you do something with her (sexually) and her BF finds out you could get hurt emotionally and physically.
3.) See how one and two work out and if you still have problems after 3 days drop those subs and run that AM refresher. Just my 2 cents. Good luck bro.
Thanks K-Train! I'll try that.
I read once (I think Shannon mentioned it) that neediness and insecurity stems from fear, maybe I should go solo and maximize OGSF to destroy fear.
- If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace. If you let go completely, you will know complete peace and freedom
- F.O.C.U.S = Follow.One.Course.Until.Success
- F.O.C.U.S = Follow.One.Course.Until.Success