07-26-2016, 02:23 AM
(07-25-2016, 10:56 PM)Bwarrior Wrote:(07-25-2016, 01:24 AM)Shannon Wrote: You can't always make your decisions based on what people on the Internet tell you. You have to think for yourself. Not everything woman withholds sex if she thinks you're boyfriend material. You should really think through how you choose to respond to her or not respond. If all you want is sex, okay, but if you are trying to deny a potential relationship because someone told you that it won't lead to sex, rethink that.
I was only assuming because i think that I'm boyfriend material. Since I'm good looking, wealthy, nice guy attitude etc.. compared to my circle of friends. So maybe i am correct or wrong about that and it was a good result from my asc and current dmsi since i was low at self esteem.
I am not going to a relationship if my goal is sex, that's my past belief honestly. My mistake is that I didn't respond carefully on the situation since I'm not used to this situation. And I didn't want to be on relationship with her, just for sex only because she initially offer to sleep with me and I assume that she wants sex. I'm not interested on having a relationship with her with or without sex so that's why I'm ignoring her as possible as i can without affecting our circle of friends.
Why don't u just tell her you are not into the whole relationship thing right now because you haven't been convinced enough by any female you have come across as of yet?
She is throwing all that shit out to see what you would most likely choose: friends with benefits scenario, relationships sex because she clearly want you around her and have you keep her in your life. You make the decision of what you want and u let it be known.
Since she is the one changing her mind all the time and throwing different scenarios out to you and making her demands why should u back down and bow down to her demands? Shouldn't u be counter throwing your own demands as to how you want the situation to be instead of bending over backwards to what she wants: "sex now" "ok no sex now relationship first then sex"?
Are you kidding me bro?
You are the male u decide!
