Metamorphosis: AM6 (...) « DAOS (32 da) + LGOPR (9 da)

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Nice, you're into pick up too. How long have you been doing it for, just outta curiosity? I'll be subbing to your thread in return.

Thanks brother! Your positivity motivates me. I've been doing pickup for almost 5 months, but the logistics of my life living in this very remote town leaves me with very little chance to practice my pickup skills. I'm quitting my job today so I can move to a better place, so I can improve on my game.

By the way, that's a messed up thing to say to a student that he saw nothing attractive about you. I had two different mentors in my time. I left both of them, because neither were very good coaches. The second one was a little harsh, and said something similar along those lines too, but I had no personality and that all he sees is a shell. The truth is that every time I was around him, he was overly dominant and would tell me off if I didn't do things right. It made me all stifled. I wasn't my true self when either of the coaches were training me.

I could relate so much to this. Being harsh as a coach could work to some students, but in my case, what he told me added more to the insecurities I've been working so hard to erase. I thanked him though for his brutal honesty, though I was also thinking that's how he do his sales pitch so I would take his more expensive bootcamp. In fairness though, he's a real good pickup artist and I learned things from him.