KRISTEN, PHARMACY STUDENT
ENTER A DATE
23/03/10
ENTER LOCATION
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HOW WAS YOUR AVATAR?
8 of 10
WHICH THEMES WERE YOU ABLE TO PRESENT IN YOUR AVATAR?
Relaxed aura, interesting accessory
Comment—Wear some silver necklace [Guilt]
HOW WAS YOUR OPENER?
I tapped her arms. “Hi, you look adorable. I like your eyes. What’s your name?” Wow, she’s cute and small—just my type. I had fun vibe because Kim and I had just approached a 2-set who were receptive... So that’s Direct Opener.
Comment—If you can learn to maintain the fun aura without relying on a recent positive reference, that would be better
HOW DID THE SET RESPOND TO YOUR OPENING?
The girl smiled... (I forgot what happened next. I guess, I started to ask fluffs and qualified her. I remember sharing DHV stories. I put my arms around her, she’s ok with it or she’s just polite.)
DID YOU SMILE?
Yes
HOW WAS YOUR BODY LANGUAGE WHEN YOU OPENED THE SET?
I think that was quite good. I tapped her arms from behind. And soon, I put my arms around her.
DID YOU THROW AN FTC AS SOON AS YOU OPENED THE SET?
No
HOW WAS YOUR LOCK-IN?
I noticed she wears a nice necklace, so I complimented her for that. “That looks good on you. It seems to me that it was given to you by someone special.” She gestured no. Then Arjay came in (and I know he’s winging me for some guy is coming from behind us), I told Arjay, “This girl has a boyfriend. She’s taken. She’s mine now,” as I put my arm around her. The girl smiled more, a bit laughing.
DID YOU ACKNOWLEDGE OR PAY RESPECT TO THE OBSTACLE/S?
Yes
WHO WAS/WERE THE OBSTACLES?
Guy obstacle
HOW WAS THE INTERACTION WITH THE OBSTACLE/S?
The guy came in and stood just beside the girl. Looking at the guy, I said with a smile, “Are you guys a couple? You look good together.” The girl gestured no, a bit smiling. Then Jeff came in and gamed the guy as I was about to tell my DHV story to the girl.
Comment—As regards to the guy obstacle, you should thank Jeff for winging you, but it was your first time approaching a set with a guy in it. You kinda did well. You should try more of that. And let’s see how far the amogging thing will affect your game. Game the guy while you're gaming the girl.
HOW DID YOU TRANSITION THE INTERACTION TO THE TARGET?
I put my arms around her again. I told her, “I have a sister who looks just like you. Are you studying some art-related course?” She said, “No, it’s Pharmacy.” I high-fived her. “My sister is also taking a Medicine-related course, but I forgot what it’s called.” Then I described it. “Med Tech,” she said. “Exactly!”
Comment—That sounds like bullshit. You’d appeared trying hard man. Saying you love your sister, but you don’t know her course?
DID YOU LOOK AT HER LEFT EYE?
Yes
Comment—I gave her a strong eye contact as I opened her, “Hi, you look adorable. I like your eyes. What’s your name?”
WHICH ATTRACTIVE TRAITS DID YOU PRESENT?
Leader of men, protector of loved ones, outcome independent, socially intelligent, interesting, relaxed, emotionally unaffected, not a reaction seeker, well-groomed
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS LEADER OF MEN?
I told Arjay, quite jokingly, as he was about to wing me, “This girl is taken. This girl is mine now,” as I put my arms around her. She’s a bit laughing.
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PRESELECTED BY WOMEN?
Don’t remember a thing
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PROTECTOR OF LOVED ONES?
The DHV story I shared is somewhat like, “I have a younger sister who looks just like you. I am quite over-protective of her. Bla bl bla” as I kept my arms around her—the lock-in.
Comment—Prepare your DHV stories, write them down... You should consciously do multi-threading stuff next time. You should also watch out for instances when the woman starts to qualify you with interest. It didn’t happen on this set.
WHILE PRESENTING YOURSELF WITH THESE ATTRACTIVE TRAITS, DID YOU, IN ANYWAY, SHOW ANY OF THEM DIRECTLY OR BRAG?
No
DID YOU THROW A FALSE DISQUALIFIER TO DESTROY HER SHIELDS?
No, I kinda treated her like a younger sister, I guess.
DID YOU DELIVER YOUR ROUTINE/S SOON AFTER THE SET'S SHIELDS WERE TURNED OFF?
No, I didn’t do an obvious routine on this set.
DID YOU DELIVER A DHV STORY?
Yes. “I have a little sister who looks just like you. I am quite over-protective of her. Bla bla bla”
HOW DID YOU DELIVER YOUR DHV STORY?
I spoke with enthusiasm, my voice was animated
Comment—Speak slowly, lower the tone of your voice, speak with a deep loud voice, put pauses, multi-thread
WHICH VOCAL TONALITIES WERE YOU ABLE TO USE IN YOUR INTERACTION WITH THE TARGET?
Father to daughter frame, adding to the fun frame
Comment—Challenging frame and Art's flirting frame next time
HOW DID YOUR MULTI-THREADING GO?
I wasn't conscious of this still...
WERE THERE ATTRACTION BEFORE YOU PROCEEDED TO QUALIFYING?
She was smiling, a bit laughing, faced me, did not show discomfort having my arms around her
WHAT IODS WERE PRESENT?
I failed on getting her number. Hmmm... I said, “I have to get your number.” She said, “No” (smiling). “Why? Tell me you have a boyfriend.” She nodded (still smiling). “So, how many times did that guy broke your heart?” (she’s laughing this time). “Listen, I’m sure it doesn’t always happen that some strange guy like me will approach you, and bla bla bla.” She’s still a bit hesitant. Then the guy came closer and put his arms around her. “You’re not really giving your number, are you?” I was laughing, “Anyway, thanks to both of you guys.” I and the guy did some friendly gesture, and they went away. I guess he’s a suitor.
Comment—You could’ve gotten her number if you’d asked better questions and if the situation was right, I mean, the guy wasn’t there... Anyway, you should've at least asked for her Facebook.
ACCUMULATED HOURS OF MONITORED GAME
Around 3 hrs
ENTER A DATE
23/03/10
ENTER LOCATION
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HOW WAS YOUR AVATAR?
8 of 10
WHICH THEMES WERE YOU ABLE TO PRESENT IN YOUR AVATAR?
Relaxed aura, interesting accessory
Comment—Wear some silver necklace [Guilt]
HOW WAS YOUR OPENER?
I tapped her arms. “Hi, you look adorable. I like your eyes. What’s your name?” Wow, she’s cute and small—just my type. I had fun vibe because Kim and I had just approached a 2-set who were receptive... So that’s Direct Opener.
Comment—If you can learn to maintain the fun aura without relying on a recent positive reference, that would be better
HOW DID THE SET RESPOND TO YOUR OPENING?
The girl smiled... (I forgot what happened next. I guess, I started to ask fluffs and qualified her. I remember sharing DHV stories. I put my arms around her, she’s ok with it or she’s just polite.)
DID YOU SMILE?
Yes
HOW WAS YOUR BODY LANGUAGE WHEN YOU OPENED THE SET?
I think that was quite good. I tapped her arms from behind. And soon, I put my arms around her.
DID YOU THROW AN FTC AS SOON AS YOU OPENED THE SET?
No
HOW WAS YOUR LOCK-IN?
I noticed she wears a nice necklace, so I complimented her for that. “That looks good on you. It seems to me that it was given to you by someone special.” She gestured no. Then Arjay came in (and I know he’s winging me for some guy is coming from behind us), I told Arjay, “This girl has a boyfriend. She’s taken. She’s mine now,” as I put my arm around her. The girl smiled more, a bit laughing.
DID YOU ACKNOWLEDGE OR PAY RESPECT TO THE OBSTACLE/S?
Yes
WHO WAS/WERE THE OBSTACLES?
Guy obstacle
HOW WAS THE INTERACTION WITH THE OBSTACLE/S?
The guy came in and stood just beside the girl. Looking at the guy, I said with a smile, “Are you guys a couple? You look good together.” The girl gestured no, a bit smiling. Then Jeff came in and gamed the guy as I was about to tell my DHV story to the girl.
Comment—As regards to the guy obstacle, you should thank Jeff for winging you, but it was your first time approaching a set with a guy in it. You kinda did well. You should try more of that. And let’s see how far the amogging thing will affect your game. Game the guy while you're gaming the girl.
HOW DID YOU TRANSITION THE INTERACTION TO THE TARGET?
I put my arms around her again. I told her, “I have a sister who looks just like you. Are you studying some art-related course?” She said, “No, it’s Pharmacy.” I high-fived her. “My sister is also taking a Medicine-related course, but I forgot what it’s called.” Then I described it. “Med Tech,” she said. “Exactly!”
Comment—That sounds like bullshit. You’d appeared trying hard man. Saying you love your sister, but you don’t know her course?
DID YOU LOOK AT HER LEFT EYE?
Yes
Comment—I gave her a strong eye contact as I opened her, “Hi, you look adorable. I like your eyes. What’s your name?”
WHICH ATTRACTIVE TRAITS DID YOU PRESENT?
Leader of men, protector of loved ones, outcome independent, socially intelligent, interesting, relaxed, emotionally unaffected, not a reaction seeker, well-groomed
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS LEADER OF MEN?
I told Arjay, quite jokingly, as he was about to wing me, “This girl is taken. This girl is mine now,” as I put my arms around her. She’s a bit laughing.
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PRESELECTED BY WOMEN?
Don’t remember a thing
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PROTECTOR OF LOVED ONES?
The DHV story I shared is somewhat like, “I have a younger sister who looks just like you. I am quite over-protective of her. Bla bl bla” as I kept my arms around her—the lock-in.
Comment—Prepare your DHV stories, write them down... You should consciously do multi-threading stuff next time. You should also watch out for instances when the woman starts to qualify you with interest. It didn’t happen on this set.
WHILE PRESENTING YOURSELF WITH THESE ATTRACTIVE TRAITS, DID YOU, IN ANYWAY, SHOW ANY OF THEM DIRECTLY OR BRAG?
No
DID YOU THROW A FALSE DISQUALIFIER TO DESTROY HER SHIELDS?
No, I kinda treated her like a younger sister, I guess.
DID YOU DELIVER YOUR ROUTINE/S SOON AFTER THE SET'S SHIELDS WERE TURNED OFF?
No, I didn’t do an obvious routine on this set.
DID YOU DELIVER A DHV STORY?
Yes. “I have a little sister who looks just like you. I am quite over-protective of her. Bla bla bla”
HOW DID YOU DELIVER YOUR DHV STORY?
I spoke with enthusiasm, my voice was animated
Comment—Speak slowly, lower the tone of your voice, speak with a deep loud voice, put pauses, multi-thread
WHICH VOCAL TONALITIES WERE YOU ABLE TO USE IN YOUR INTERACTION WITH THE TARGET?
Father to daughter frame, adding to the fun frame
Comment—Challenging frame and Art's flirting frame next time
HOW DID YOUR MULTI-THREADING GO?
I wasn't conscious of this still...
WERE THERE ATTRACTION BEFORE YOU PROCEEDED TO QUALIFYING?
She was smiling, a bit laughing, faced me, did not show discomfort having my arms around her
WHAT IODS WERE PRESENT?
I failed on getting her number. Hmmm... I said, “I have to get your number.” She said, “No” (smiling). “Why? Tell me you have a boyfriend.” She nodded (still smiling). “So, how many times did that guy broke your heart?” (she’s laughing this time). “Listen, I’m sure it doesn’t always happen that some strange guy like me will approach you, and bla bla bla.” She’s still a bit hesitant. Then the guy came closer and put his arms around her. “You’re not really giving your number, are you?” I was laughing, “Anyway, thanks to both of you guys.” I and the guy did some friendly gesture, and they went away. I guess he’s a suitor.
Comment—You could’ve gotten her number if you’d asked better questions and if the situation was right, I mean, the guy wasn’t there... Anyway, you should've at least asked for her Facebook.
ACCUMULATED HOURS OF MONITORED GAME
Around 3 hrs