06-10-2012, 11:23 AM
The end of Stage 3
I think I have been too expectant of the sub. I have realized that taking action in different ways and open my eyes to see things from a different perspective back-upped by practice and observation, have given me happiness and contentment and a much more real vision for what I wanted with women..
It's the mood of, yeah.. I know, you are cute, and just smiling and doing whatever, which I had lost for some time but regained.
What I can say about stage 3 mixed with my new view on women is that I am much less needy. I don't care if I hook up with a girl or not anymore when and even when one friend is having some intimate time with a girl and I don't, it don't affect me. I'm happy on his ways.
Women know I see them and they'll look away often. I almost feel guilty for not going over and talk to them but there's just SO many in so many different places...
Another thing of notice is that women also like to try to start a conversation with me, especially in stores. I'm not talkative at all so I'll smile, laugh, say some words and move on.
This one girl came over to me earlier today while I was waiting on the bus and enjoying my ice-cream (I had the spoon in my mouth) and asked me if I had a smoke but when she was beside me and had already spoken she said, "ohh I thought you were smoking. You don't smoke, do you?"
I took my time, took my spoon out and laughed. Looked at her and said said no.. she lingered for a while and then went over to a store.
I'm much more a man of "inner power" if you can say, than the conversationalist. That means my intention if I want, can be very strong when I really want to show it. Not by many words.
Tonight I start Stage 4! Lets see where it leads
I think I have been too expectant of the sub. I have realized that taking action in different ways and open my eyes to see things from a different perspective back-upped by practice and observation, have given me happiness and contentment and a much more real vision for what I wanted with women..
It's the mood of, yeah.. I know, you are cute, and just smiling and doing whatever, which I had lost for some time but regained.
What I can say about stage 3 mixed with my new view on women is that I am much less needy. I don't care if I hook up with a girl or not anymore when and even when one friend is having some intimate time with a girl and I don't, it don't affect me. I'm happy on his ways.
Women know I see them and they'll look away often. I almost feel guilty for not going over and talk to them but there's just SO many in so many different places...
Another thing of notice is that women also like to try to start a conversation with me, especially in stores. I'm not talkative at all so I'll smile, laugh, say some words and move on.
This one girl came over to me earlier today while I was waiting on the bus and enjoying my ice-cream (I had the spoon in my mouth) and asked me if I had a smoke but when she was beside me and had already spoken she said, "ohh I thought you were smoking. You don't smoke, do you?"
I took my time, took my spoon out and laughed. Looked at her and said said no.. she lingered for a while and then went over to a store.
I'm much more a man of "inner power" if you can say, than the conversationalist. That means my intention if I want, can be very strong when I really want to show it. Not by many words.
Tonight I start Stage 4! Lets see where it leads
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
