04-30-2012, 02:21 PM
I'll eventually tell them the truth. I mean.. as far as I remember, being flat out honest hasn't gotten me in many intimate moments with women but instead focusing on creating out of nothing - even if it's a lie because it's no big deal. A small white lie doesn't hurt
But yeah.. sometimes I take it too far and the women can't take me serious.
Stage 3 - Day 3,
Two days ago, Saturday, I went out to my regular bar by myself. Lots of people. Walked over to talk to two girls at the bar with a direct approach but the conversation quickly died, not fun girls anyway.
Went downstairs and saw another two girls by themselves. Walked over to them with a "routine" and they got intrigued. They told me I was good at lying (I've heard that from a girl that I had sex with before) so it was a pretty positive indicator.
They asked me if I'm out by myself and I just told them that I left my friends at another place because it was boring and I didn't want to follow with the crowd.
They offered me to sit with them.
They ask me if I smoke, I go with them outside and one of them give me a cigaret.
And basically they asked me where we should go, so I asked them if they knew this place and we went over.
Now it's something new to me that two girls I've just met wants me to take them somewhere but they were intrigued, and it felt very natural and I'm sure that's also why they just went with me.
There was some undergoing "battle" for me but the loudest girl dominated the other girl and as my lust was more focused on the other girl, they eventually decided to go home (That's when I came back from the toilet. Before I went, the one I wanted said she wanted to stay).
Always interesting things happens when a new stage begins!
But yeah.. sometimes I take it too far and the women can't take me serious.
Stage 3 - Day 3,
Two days ago, Saturday, I went out to my regular bar by myself. Lots of people. Walked over to talk to two girls at the bar with a direct approach but the conversation quickly died, not fun girls anyway.
Went downstairs and saw another two girls by themselves. Walked over to them with a "routine" and they got intrigued. They told me I was good at lying (I've heard that from a girl that I had sex with before) so it was a pretty positive indicator.
They asked me if I'm out by myself and I just told them that I left my friends at another place because it was boring and I didn't want to follow with the crowd.
They offered me to sit with them.
They ask me if I smoke, I go with them outside and one of them give me a cigaret.
And basically they asked me where we should go, so I asked them if they knew this place and we went over.
Now it's something new to me that two girls I've just met wants me to take them somewhere but they were intrigued, and it felt very natural and I'm sure that's also why they just went with me.
There was some undergoing "battle" for me but the loudest girl dominated the other girl and as my lust was more focused on the other girl, they eventually decided to go home (That's when I came back from the toilet. Before I went, the one I wanted said she wanted to stay).
Always interesting things happens when a new stage begins!
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.