You could have told her I am a master salad maker and I carve skateboards with my toes. Let her laugh.. then you can really tell her something about yourself.
I think once you finish Sex Magnet.. all this bibble babble about this one girl will go out the window because you will realize SHE does not matter. What matters is what you do for yourself and only for yourself and compassion for what is in this moment. Wether it's how the tea pot is sitting or how that bird is singing and how beautiful it sounds. When you make connections with everything around you it all seems so much easier. For instance.. you may not make great connections with some people initially (if you choose to be genuine and present) but with practice you will start to get it. "Be the change you want to see in the world." With practice other people will sense your positive energy through your smile and presence. You will enlighten others and all it takes is one moment and one connection. With this girl.. you can choose to love her now as she is (I don't mean to bend her over physically against the counter and put your penis in her [you can do this but not for the point I'm trying to make]) and share a deep connection with her.. or you can choose to think about what you are going to say to her in this situation or that situation or how you are going to look at her in that situation or this situation. I am babbling on now... but when you start to look at things differently everything will change. What I am getting at is abundance. If you have to think about this girl so much and worry about how long it's been since you've been in contact (and you only have slept with her once) then you are digging yourself a hole. You project this needy vibe. If you want to have an abundance of women in your life.. then you gotta start thinking like it. Basically a man that has an abundance of women does not need women ever. He is fine with himself...and the world. The world is his playground of joy.
Ok Lionmonkey.. I hope I helped... and hopefully you don't get too confused with all that crazy talk but maybe if you can understand a little bit of it and keep it in mind.. I'm sure by the end of sex magnet you will be able to fully comprehend this post. I wish you good luck.. and stop worrying so much about that girl.. and how to keep her curious. Just relax.
I think once you finish Sex Magnet.. all this bibble babble about this one girl will go out the window because you will realize SHE does not matter. What matters is what you do for yourself and only for yourself and compassion for what is in this moment. Wether it's how the tea pot is sitting or how that bird is singing and how beautiful it sounds. When you make connections with everything around you it all seems so much easier. For instance.. you may not make great connections with some people initially (if you choose to be genuine and present) but with practice you will start to get it. "Be the change you want to see in the world." With practice other people will sense your positive energy through your smile and presence. You will enlighten others and all it takes is one moment and one connection. With this girl.. you can choose to love her now as she is (I don't mean to bend her over physically against the counter and put your penis in her [you can do this but not for the point I'm trying to make]) and share a deep connection with her.. or you can choose to think about what you are going to say to her in this situation or that situation or how you are going to look at her in that situation or this situation. I am babbling on now... but when you start to look at things differently everything will change. What I am getting at is abundance. If you have to think about this girl so much and worry about how long it's been since you've been in contact (and you only have slept with her once) then you are digging yourself a hole. You project this needy vibe. If you want to have an abundance of women in your life.. then you gotta start thinking like it. Basically a man that has an abundance of women does not need women ever. He is fine with himself...and the world. The world is his playground of joy.
Ok Lionmonkey.. I hope I helped... and hopefully you don't get too confused with all that crazy talk but maybe if you can understand a little bit of it and keep it in mind.. I'm sure by the end of sex magnet you will be able to fully comprehend this post. I wish you good luck.. and stop worrying so much about that girl.. and how to keep her curious. Just relax.
"To love completely and hold onto nothing-that is the only freedom." -David Deida
"If at first glance it may appear too hard, look again. Always look again." - Unknown
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"If at first glance it may appear too hard, look again. Always look again." - Unknown
If you would like to get in touch with me, please send me an email.
