02-26-2012, 01:46 PM
(This post was last modified: 02-26-2012, 01:46 PM by LionMonkey.)
Stage 1 - Day 15,
I have noticed that I'm much more non-needy than I use to be with women when I'm out with them. It feels great that the urge of needing a woman's affection and validation is far away and have turned into a little bit seed
Went on a date yesterday with one of the girls I met in the last bar the night where I was out by myself. I chose her over her close friend...
We started to have coffee together. When I went in for a kiss after about 15 minutes of interaction, I did it slowly. Controlled, yet it felt smooth.
Anyways, we went to a bar later and to the cinema by the end.
There was quite a few times where she would tease me that when I went in to kiss her, she would give me her chin or she would not go into the kiss herself.
As she did this, I would either just kiss her on the chin or just lean back and watch the movie with no hard feelings.
And then she would suddenly be besides me with her head and wanting me to kiss her. So I did, and she would take my arm, cuddling and also lean her head against my shoulder
I just want her to feel pleasure and good. To me I want to give her the best treat but also maintain my manliness.
Hmm.. I think this is a pretty big step for me, the mindset shift. I used to put very little, if no effort in being with a girl. Now I try to make it great but still try to be myself and not trying to impress...
Going to see her again Tuesday but our logistics aren't very great for sex, since we both are still haven't moved out yet. I do have a plan for the weekend though
- LM
I have noticed that I'm much more non-needy than I use to be with women when I'm out with them. It feels great that the urge of needing a woman's affection and validation is far away and have turned into a little bit seed
Went on a date yesterday with one of the girls I met in the last bar the night where I was out by myself. I chose her over her close friend...
We started to have coffee together. When I went in for a kiss after about 15 minutes of interaction, I did it slowly. Controlled, yet it felt smooth.
Anyways, we went to a bar later and to the cinema by the end.
There was quite a few times where she would tease me that when I went in to kiss her, she would give me her chin or she would not go into the kiss herself.
As she did this, I would either just kiss her on the chin or just lean back and watch the movie with no hard feelings.
And then she would suddenly be besides me with her head and wanting me to kiss her. So I did, and she would take my arm, cuddling and also lean her head against my shoulder
I just want her to feel pleasure and good. To me I want to give her the best treat but also maintain my manliness.
Hmm.. I think this is a pretty big step for me, the mindset shift. I used to put very little, if no effort in being with a girl. Now I try to make it great but still try to be myself and not trying to impress...
Going to see her again Tuesday but our logistics aren't very great for sex, since we both are still haven't moved out yet. I do have a plan for the weekend though
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
