02-15-2012, 11:57 AM
Just said something bullshit about my name. These things girls (who's got some game) usually do to guys in a bar/club environment.
Stage 1 - Day 5,
It seems like many girls just want to make out as fast as possible, if a guy is at least a little standing out from all the others in a club/bar environment.
Yesterday night I went to 3 different bars by myself. I felt very uncomfortable. I had this subconscious fight or it was like my body didn't want either to enter the first bar by myself. I walked past the bar and waited 5 minutes before I went back and entered.
First bar, few people, not a very sociable context at the time I was there. Drank a beer, talked a bit with the bartenders and went over to a table with two girls, made them laugh and think I was sweet and left.
Second bar, a friend of mine was there. Took a beer, talked with a girl my friend knew. She wasn't from around town, so she was very different, very open but our interaction was not very communicative and not very fun either because I've just adapted how to talk to the "girls in this city". Went up to the bar were 2 pretty ladies were sitting, told a joke which they didn't find funny. Then I tried another one and they loved it
Later I talked with my buddy's, friends girlfriend, who said, "He's the first guy who still wanted me, even though I withheld sex the first night". Interesting stuff...
I was going to take off and I wanted to talk with the girls at the bar one more time. So I go up, talk with one of them. While talking to the girl I wanted, her friend began to make out massively with a guy who just came up. Later they told me she's not usually like that and it was her first time doing that, usually it's her friend (the one I wanted) who does that. The interaction got stall. I hugged both of them and the friend of the girl I wanted said I was so cute, and I left with the number of the girl, who I wanted.
Third bar, I was feeling a bit good after that interaction. I enter the bar, pleasantly amount of people. I walked towards the bar and I see two girls sitting at a table waving to me and is like "Heey!!" like they knew me. So I played along and sat with them. They gave me a beer to cheer with them and we talked. 4 girls intensely listening to what I had to say. Doesn't happen often but I definitely had the right attitude, with the right things to say at the right time.
I was "the mysterious, hot & cute guy".
At a point, while I was talking with them, one of them pushed her legs against mine and her lap and she took my hand under the table and cuddled my lap. The most aggressive one but also most dominant one in the group. I reciprocated it from time to time.
She asked for my number before she left. I gave it and as she was going to say goodbye to me, she leaned in from behind while I was sitting and I looked to the side, it was a quick weird moment because it either it was supposed to be a kiss on the lips or the chin. She kissed me on the chin.
Now it was three girls and me. I found two of them attractive enough to go out with but the one I went for said that she didn't want to do it because I've already chosen her friend, who had left. Anyways we went up dancing a little sexually.
So the other girl who I also found attractive thought it was game-over for her so this guy who seemed pretty, with fine body and not a creepy attitude sat at the table and as soon I came back to the table, she literally pushed the guy out and went with him.
It ends with people getting tired, I was going to leave and the girl who took the other guy asked if I wanted her number. Which I replied with, "Do you want me to have your number?" which she replied "yes, why else would I say it?" I said, "I don't know. It could be a test.", she said she didn't test and I said, sure you do, maybe just doing it unconsciously.
I took her number and I hugged all 3 of them and left.
Earlier today the last girl wrote to me. I replied and wrote two specialized text to the other two 5 hours later, around 17. None of them have replied though.
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What I have noticed SM already has an effect on are; I'm much more detached for whatever could happen. Also I'm less attention-seeking (this is something that I do unconsciously sometimes). One thing more is that I get a hard-on when I'm laying in bed and listening to the sub
- LM
Stage 1 - Day 5,
It seems like many girls just want to make out as fast as possible, if a guy is at least a little standing out from all the others in a club/bar environment.
Yesterday night I went to 3 different bars by myself. I felt very uncomfortable. I had this subconscious fight or it was like my body didn't want either to enter the first bar by myself. I walked past the bar and waited 5 minutes before I went back and entered.
First bar, few people, not a very sociable context at the time I was there. Drank a beer, talked a bit with the bartenders and went over to a table with two girls, made them laugh and think I was sweet and left.
Second bar, a friend of mine was there. Took a beer, talked with a girl my friend knew. She wasn't from around town, so she was very different, very open but our interaction was not very communicative and not very fun either because I've just adapted how to talk to the "girls in this city". Went up to the bar were 2 pretty ladies were sitting, told a joke which they didn't find funny. Then I tried another one and they loved it
Later I talked with my buddy's, friends girlfriend, who said, "He's the first guy who still wanted me, even though I withheld sex the first night". Interesting stuff...
I was going to take off and I wanted to talk with the girls at the bar one more time. So I go up, talk with one of them. While talking to the girl I wanted, her friend began to make out massively with a guy who just came up. Later they told me she's not usually like that and it was her first time doing that, usually it's her friend (the one I wanted) who does that. The interaction got stall. I hugged both of them and the friend of the girl I wanted said I was so cute, and I left with the number of the girl, who I wanted.
Third bar, I was feeling a bit good after that interaction. I enter the bar, pleasantly amount of people. I walked towards the bar and I see two girls sitting at a table waving to me and is like "Heey!!" like they knew me. So I played along and sat with them. They gave me a beer to cheer with them and we talked. 4 girls intensely listening to what I had to say. Doesn't happen often but I definitely had the right attitude, with the right things to say at the right time.
I was "the mysterious, hot & cute guy".
At a point, while I was talking with them, one of them pushed her legs against mine and her lap and she took my hand under the table and cuddled my lap. The most aggressive one but also most dominant one in the group. I reciprocated it from time to time.
She asked for my number before she left. I gave it and as she was going to say goodbye to me, she leaned in from behind while I was sitting and I looked to the side, it was a quick weird moment because it either it was supposed to be a kiss on the lips or the chin. She kissed me on the chin.
Now it was three girls and me. I found two of them attractive enough to go out with but the one I went for said that she didn't want to do it because I've already chosen her friend, who had left. Anyways we went up dancing a little sexually.
So the other girl who I also found attractive thought it was game-over for her so this guy who seemed pretty, with fine body and not a creepy attitude sat at the table and as soon I came back to the table, she literally pushed the guy out and went with him.
It ends with people getting tired, I was going to leave and the girl who took the other guy asked if I wanted her number. Which I replied with, "Do you want me to have your number?" which she replied "yes, why else would I say it?" I said, "I don't know. It could be a test.", she said she didn't test and I said, sure you do, maybe just doing it unconsciously.
I took her number and I hugged all 3 of them and left.
Earlier today the last girl wrote to me. I replied and wrote two specialized text to the other two 5 hours later, around 17. None of them have replied though.
==========================================================================================
What I have noticed SM already has an effect on are; I'm much more detached for whatever could happen. Also I'm less attention-seeking (this is something that I do unconsciously sometimes). One thing more is that I get a hard-on when I'm laying in bed and listening to the sub
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
