Yesterday, I didn't felt like going to the gym because I currently have a cold and I got some muscular pain in the upper back and some sort of annoying tennis elbow.
So instead of going to the gym, I call to get a massage session appointment. I like to get myself some good massage once in a while as it relax me and I was more than overdue for that! My appointment was with a cute young new therapist. The place I go, you take an appointment and unless you specify with who you want your appointment, they assign you whatever therapist is available. Since, I like variety and surprises, I never mention with who I want to be. And anyway, I go there so rarely that I forget their names anyway...
During the massage, the therapist said few things to me that I interpreted as hints that she was interested to me and was flirting with me. She did throw some new age stuff such as my left arm injury may mean that since the left side body is connected to the right brain hemisphere which is the creativity center, I may need to find some fun activity with someone to relax and have fun... Then she said something along the lines that when she receive a massage, sometimes she FEEL EXCITED and it is HARD to be in the present when she knows something really fun is waiting for her right after the massage. (that sounded like some NLP hypnotic commands! ;-)
Ok, in case it comes to your mind that I was in some shady massage place and the girl was attempting to sell me the idea of a "happy ending" No, this is not the case. I have been to this place easily for the last 15 years and the place is totally legit and professional. I do suspect that the therapist (only female staff) do sometimes flirt a little bit with clients to play in the men fantasies and receive better tips but I also believe that most of the times, the therapist are really nice with me and are genuinely intested to me because I'm a charming and seductive, sexy man...
So I started to ask questions to possibly offer her to go out with her.. (that was the intent and took control of the direction of where the discussion was leading to) So I did ask her what she did like to do to have fun? Yoga receive massage, being outside... I did ask her if she did like to party... Her answer was interesting. She said that when she was 18, she did a lot but not anymore. Now she that is more mature... She likes to hang out with older persons... (Was she trying to qualify to me here? She is less than 25... I would say maybe 21... 22 max). She likes to go in place where the music isn't loud where you can hear each other talking... I just happen to know a bar maybe 3 blocks away that pretty much fit that description. I asked her if she knew the place? No she doesn't... She never explored her workplace surrounding much...
I was expecting some curiosity but I didn't felt as much as I wanted from her... I could have made an explicit request to see if she would like to try out the bar with me... but I didn't... My train of thoughts was... She is cute... She is young... We definitely share some intimacy since I'm getting massaged naked by her on a table... she did flirt and demonstrate some interest... but what other qualities did she demonstrate that would justify my interest in going out with her? I could not answer to that so I just did the discussion die... I closed my eyes and did focus on the remaining massage session time.
On my way out, I did left her $5 tip as I always do unless the massage went terribly bad... and we did continue to talk maybe 2 more minutes... I could see sparks in her eyes and feeling the sexual tension between us (I'm getting better to see it and recognize it for what it is...).
So in summary, there is 3 things that I find worthy to note. First, I like how I'm becoming harder to impress. It becomes natural to require women to invest more in me to win my interest and that is certainly a good frame to maintain in all man-woman interaction...
Secondly, I did notice that I had an intent in mind and took control of the discussion to bring it toward what I had in mind. I start to realize that this aspect is becoming crystal clear in my mind. In the past, I did not have that level of control on discussions.. I was more letting it drifting or letting the other have control of it. Most of the time, if you let girls control the discussion, this is bad because a lot of them suck at keeping a discussion interesting... (and this is an alpha trait to control the discussion...)
Thirdly, I can't help but wonder if I would have done the same with the SM programming under my belt. Would I have been more aggressive, bold and blunt with the therapist? Maybe increase tension to make having sex right there in the massage room something doable...
And finally, this is an interogation that I had yesterday and I'm going to check right after posting this. Does AM6 program has an aura component?
So instead of going to the gym, I call to get a massage session appointment. I like to get myself some good massage once in a while as it relax me and I was more than overdue for that! My appointment was with a cute young new therapist. The place I go, you take an appointment and unless you specify with who you want your appointment, they assign you whatever therapist is available. Since, I like variety and surprises, I never mention with who I want to be. And anyway, I go there so rarely that I forget their names anyway...
During the massage, the therapist said few things to me that I interpreted as hints that she was interested to me and was flirting with me. She did throw some new age stuff such as my left arm injury may mean that since the left side body is connected to the right brain hemisphere which is the creativity center, I may need to find some fun activity with someone to relax and have fun... Then she said something along the lines that when she receive a massage, sometimes she FEEL EXCITED and it is HARD to be in the present when she knows something really fun is waiting for her right after the massage. (that sounded like some NLP hypnotic commands! ;-)
Ok, in case it comes to your mind that I was in some shady massage place and the girl was attempting to sell me the idea of a "happy ending" No, this is not the case. I have been to this place easily for the last 15 years and the place is totally legit and professional. I do suspect that the therapist (only female staff) do sometimes flirt a little bit with clients to play in the men fantasies and receive better tips but I also believe that most of the times, the therapist are really nice with me and are genuinely intested to me because I'm a charming and seductive, sexy man...
So I started to ask questions to possibly offer her to go out with her.. (that was the intent and took control of the direction of where the discussion was leading to) So I did ask her what she did like to do to have fun? Yoga receive massage, being outside... I did ask her if she did like to party... Her answer was interesting. She said that when she was 18, she did a lot but not anymore. Now she that is more mature... She likes to hang out with older persons... (Was she trying to qualify to me here? She is less than 25... I would say maybe 21... 22 max). She likes to go in place where the music isn't loud where you can hear each other talking... I just happen to know a bar maybe 3 blocks away that pretty much fit that description. I asked her if she knew the place? No she doesn't... She never explored her workplace surrounding much...
I was expecting some curiosity but I didn't felt as much as I wanted from her... I could have made an explicit request to see if she would like to try out the bar with me... but I didn't... My train of thoughts was... She is cute... She is young... We definitely share some intimacy since I'm getting massaged naked by her on a table... she did flirt and demonstrate some interest... but what other qualities did she demonstrate that would justify my interest in going out with her? I could not answer to that so I just did the discussion die... I closed my eyes and did focus on the remaining massage session time.
On my way out, I did left her $5 tip as I always do unless the massage went terribly bad... and we did continue to talk maybe 2 more minutes... I could see sparks in her eyes and feeling the sexual tension between us (I'm getting better to see it and recognize it for what it is...).
So in summary, there is 3 things that I find worthy to note. First, I like how I'm becoming harder to impress. It becomes natural to require women to invest more in me to win my interest and that is certainly a good frame to maintain in all man-woman interaction...
Secondly, I did notice that I had an intent in mind and took control of the discussion to bring it toward what I had in mind. I start to realize that this aspect is becoming crystal clear in my mind. In the past, I did not have that level of control on discussions.. I was more letting it drifting or letting the other have control of it. Most of the time, if you let girls control the discussion, this is bad because a lot of them suck at keeping a discussion interesting... (and this is an alpha trait to control the discussion...)
Thirdly, I can't help but wonder if I would have done the same with the SM programming under my belt. Would I have been more aggressive, bold and blunt with the therapist? Maybe increase tension to make having sex right there in the massage room something doable...
And finally, this is an interogation that I had yesterday and I'm going to check right after posting this. Does AM6 program has an aura component?
