02-27-2018, 12:26 PM
(02-27-2018, 12:04 AM)Determined Wrote:(02-26-2018, 03:17 PM)Jake2015 Wrote: Day 3 - Part 5 - Update
(Snapchat girl)
Time is now 1.15am
Shes studying for a class and im trying to do some reading, but surely if shes messaging me so much its not as easy for her either.
Shes obviously messaging others, not sure how much but whats clear is that we are non-stop messaging back and forth for the past 3.5hrs
Im still guessing this is plutonic because well she has a bf and I dont get the vibe yet that she sees me as a threat or anything.
So question is, whats DMSI actually doing? lol
Firstly it's "platonic"
Secondly, she's obviously very keen. You need to get out of your own way. This is the same retarded logic Sarge uses to sabotage himself "if she isn't pursuing me doggedly she isn't interested". You have her undivided attention for 3.5 hours straight. She clearly likes you.
More so because she has a bf. If she's enjoying your attention this much then he clearly is on his way out.
On the flip side if she was being platonic she'd be dropping numerous hints for you until you register them. That's how women communicate, indirectly.
So stop sabotaging yourself, start believing you're worth it and have some fun with a pretty girl.
Edit: As a follow up on the indirect communication, if she doesn't mention her bf it's good sign. If she keeps repeatedly bringing him up like "my bf is so great" then its not a good sign. Instead of letting your brain go haywire with notions of "friendzone" start looking for the external evidence to either prove or disprove it.
Hey Determined thanks bro,
I think youre right it is plutonic. Ok I did have her attention but I think she was also messaging others, so I could have been just 1 of many people she was messaging lastnight.
shes young, im guessing 19 so unsure if she knows how to drop hints but to be honest youre right and I havent felt any direct hints towards me that suggest shes making the boundaries clear nor is she seeming threatened by me but she isnt firing up my phone with endless messages or even pushing me to talk on the phone which I have been doing!
external evidence: no she isnt mentioning her BF or saying how amazing he is, hes actually mentioning him by name like hes just a guy she knows and he did this or he did that. She did say though that he bought her food and smuggled it into class and thats how they connected but again nothing to suggest anything more than just her talking I feel.
man im so shit at this :/
OF3 5.75.7G 13/15Vol
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days