Getting my hands wet and putting in some things in your discussion:
1) Distinction finding something insulting/Taking something insulting
2) Distinction illogical/using a different logic
Maybe can add some additional levels of nuance to the discussion and help finding a level of agreement.
1) Distinction finding something insulting/Taking something insulting
2) Distinction illogical/using a different logic
Maybe can add some additional levels of nuance to the discussion and help finding a level of agreement.