(08-29-2016, 01:18 PM)Shadowroamer Wrote: Hey guys good luck to you all on your new DMSIv3 journey. Hope you all experience excellent adventures.
It is strange, but for the past few weeks I have been dwelling on this high status theory; and here I am now reading this post.
For many years I have had an awful habit of castigating myself. My inner dialogue was filled with endless diatribe and self-deprecation. That is until I discovered this site and Shannon’s subs. I have completed two runs of AM6 tried BIABTW and DAOS.
I always thought that I was much inferior to other guys. Many of my friends , the Alpha’s, the Betas the good looking and not so good looking, would always have much better results with women than me.
I concluded that I was just one of those luckless guys that women would never be attracted to. I have always been in shape, workout regularly, experienced in Martial Arts, can hold my own in a fight. None of my friends were like that growing up. I am athletic and good at sports. I also read a lot and I am naturally curious about the world.
Women would call me handsome and then just ignore me, make awful remarks about me (later I realised these are called shit tests) and generally treat me like crap.
After completing my second run of AM6 I have been venturing out a lot more. Taking long walks. The other day after a long session of meditation I went out to the local mall. I walked around completely grounded, aware of my surroundings, and was in a calm objective state.
I quickly realised that I was glancing at couples. I felt happy for them, joyful even found myself smiling at couples holding hands, or just having a good time. I was on auto pilot. Then I started noticing certain subtleties and characteristics. I discovered that most of the guys walking around with attractive and beautiful women, were just average, ordinary guys. I even saw a big guy with a beard and bald head wearing a Japanese anime t-shirt with a very slim pretty blonde. She looked really happy with him.
I have always taken good care of myself. I remember my ex went through my wardrobe and said “you have really nice clothes, very stylish”. She looked really upset. The next day she practically dragged me out of the house and bought me some awful clothes from a store old men usually visit. Brown cord trousers, brown shoes and a striped shirt. I looked like a guy in his fifties.
Since finishing AM6 I have been purchasing better products. I went through some reviews and most were comments by women buying stuff for their b/f. The comments would read as follows “My bf is useless, he has bad skin I had to buy him this product” “My partner does not look after himself, I bought him this product because he wouldn’t go out and bother.’ Every comment read like the woman was trying to put a stamp on her guy, trying to improve him. Like ‘where would you be without me’ kinda thing.
When I was with my ex I had already been dabbling with self-improvement. I already had a good job, good sense of style, healthy ambition and drive, worked out, best shape in my life. I lived alone at the time and as such I can cook, wash clean and take care of myself. None of this made her happy. We broke up. She is now with a guy who is unemployed, wears dull clothes, walks behind her with his head down and looks like a lost child. She works to support him. He is not an Alpha bad boy drug dealer or anything of the sorts. Just an ordinary guy. For years I thought she hated me because I was a loser.
It appears to me that women don’t want perfect. It makes them feel very insecure. I’m not perfect, never have viewed myself that way, in any period of my life. Yet I’m not the worst either. However, if a guy has all his shit together already, can look after himself, is confident and is a lone wolf type who just does his own thing, then women will be repelled because of their own fears and insecurities.
Yeah fifty shades of grey and magic mike films were very successful, but it was a fantasy. I don’t think most women would be in a relationship with a guy who was very successful, great looks, lots of money, confident ambitious, tough, daring alpha. Unless she is the same. Women want to make a guy, mould him into something, improve him and say ‘hey see what I did, he would be lost without me.’
Generally women are having children later in life. Most guys I know are in unhealthy relationships. They are treated like children, by their g/f and wives. They schedule activities for them, mother them, fuss over them like a mother does with a little boy. I hate it and tell women I don’t want a mum, just a companion. Women don’t like hearing it. Even when a girl accompanies her bad boy b/f to the Police Station she will wrap her arm around him and console him like a child. It’s strange but funny to watch. Like ‘hey you’ve been naughty. Hope you’ve learned your lesson, I will mother you and turn you into a good boy.’
A long post, no to offend or contradict; just a few thoughts I wanted to share with you guys. Most of you on here have your shit together, are articulate, ambitious know what you want in life. Might be just too much for women to handle. With Shannon’s super subliminal programmes thrown in the mix too, it becomes too potent for most women to handle.
thank you makes a lot of sense
if i would know where this journey takes me i wouldnt probably start it ... now i am damned to either become gay or life my whole life alone because there is no such women who is alpha enough for me
Because, women want to be treated to dinners, movies, concerts, shopping and especially, the newest gadgets, Samsung note 7; Surface pro and those wonderful, Iphones 
