03-07-2019, 05:07 AM
(This post was last modified: 03-07-2019, 05:09 AM by MasterEnki.)
(03-07-2019, 02:12 AM)Darkness Wrote: She thinks “how big of dumb ass can you be?!” She thinks you are one big joke and by far and large a sucker. And she’s not wrong, because look at she has you. She has already played you, she’s getting off on humiliating you. It’s makes her feel so powerful. She’s laughing at you, she’s been laughing at you for a while. The fact that she suggested this new level of third rate cheap ATTEMPT sex psych BS means she’s having a ball.
Please let that illustrate the extent how truly weak she perceives you to be. Rightly so.
I’m not flaming nor insulting you.
As far as I’m concerned, I’m still single. And me and her are NOT a couple, and I have zero intention of being in a couple relationship.
In my mind a couple lives together AND is romantically / sexually involved (and I’m NOT interested in that!)
In my mind, a FWB / casual lover is NOT a couple. A one-night stand is NOT a couple. Not that I’m there yet for sexual relationships, but they may occur in the close future. I should be losing my virginity sooner or later (and I’m interested in something casual only, at this point).
But, I’m happy to still cuddle, kiss and make out with her. And if she wants to label us as ‘queerplatonic’ then that’s her choice. And if she wants closeness / intimacy then I’m okay with that too (as long as I remain single). I will be staying single and living by myself (they are both clear boundaries that I currently have), and I will also be keeping my dating / sex options open. As long as I stay single / living separately, I can still enjoy the intimacy and companionship that the friendship is offering and it is close enough to satisfy the pairbonding urge(s).
