I picked up Ultimate Detox (UD) last night after lying in bed an hour, awake since my highly caffeinated 4PM coffee was still lingering. Lying awake, I was considering the things I "could" do, yet haven't. Some reasons are reasonable, but not moving forward with UD with the new technology was not.
I even got on the Paypal payment screen to buy it.....and hesitated. (I'd done this before) What was I afraid of? (knowing the answer never made it easier).......so I went forward. I was afraid of something. I've noticed I've had a fear arise lately when going directly against my norm of protecting myself constantly. Fear of change is not something, IMO, I'm proud of.
Turned on the masked version on my laptop since it doesn't handle US, and went to sleep. Woke up feeling ok, but wondering/worrying when/if the extreme tiredness would appear. It hasn't shown yet, but I stayed home from work today due to sore muscles from work. I live 200 miles above Miami, and the approaching hurricane means work will only increase. It did yesterday, and the storm's not here yet.
Why did I pick up UD? I'd asked about DMSI since many of my issues surround around my alcoholic mom's emotional sickness, which greatly affected me. (I've been divorced 3 years, but have dated noone since then). I have plans on beginning DMSI in 3 months for the A version.
I'm on my 2nd run of UD presently. Am I seeing change?
Maybe. I planned on going to my mom's during the hurricane since that'd be the "responsible thing" to do. Ok. I will do that.
But............I got kind of pissed listening to her 20 minutes ago while saying I'd come down today to shop for her. (It began raining, and I'm on a scooter--plans changed). But she LIVES on fear, on putting others down for taking care of themselves, likes she's entitled to being taken care of. I have tried that same line of thinking, but noone joined me or endorsed it, so I asked for help on it. I've found some answers, subs being one. And, I'm still learning self sufficiency, as I still wonder "will he/she help me?" Immediately upon writing that, I felt a knot in my gut, for I give power away when I expect others to do what I can do myself. I am not helpless, and I hurt me when I lie to myself in such a way.
I didn't speak up to her since my emotions were clearly hot. I'll likely speak up to her while with her, as she's lonely and like all people, needs community to survive. I'll likely stay away from her, even in the same house.
But I'll post updates. I'll likely post emotional swings, as I write mostly when emotional, as emotions don't lie
Edit: I've been on E2 around 6 months total. Good results, but slow. Some happy times indeed. But very uneventful. Maybe stuff was changing? Don't know.
I even got on the Paypal payment screen to buy it.....and hesitated. (I'd done this before) What was I afraid of? (knowing the answer never made it easier).......so I went forward. I was afraid of something. I've noticed I've had a fear arise lately when going directly against my norm of protecting myself constantly. Fear of change is not something, IMO, I'm proud of.
Turned on the masked version on my laptop since it doesn't handle US, and went to sleep. Woke up feeling ok, but wondering/worrying when/if the extreme tiredness would appear. It hasn't shown yet, but I stayed home from work today due to sore muscles from work. I live 200 miles above Miami, and the approaching hurricane means work will only increase. It did yesterday, and the storm's not here yet.
Why did I pick up UD? I'd asked about DMSI since many of my issues surround around my alcoholic mom's emotional sickness, which greatly affected me. (I've been divorced 3 years, but have dated noone since then). I have plans on beginning DMSI in 3 months for the A version.
I'm on my 2nd run of UD presently. Am I seeing change?
Maybe. I planned on going to my mom's during the hurricane since that'd be the "responsible thing" to do. Ok. I will do that.
But............I got kind of pissed listening to her 20 minutes ago while saying I'd come down today to shop for her. (It began raining, and I'm on a scooter--plans changed). But she LIVES on fear, on putting others down for taking care of themselves, likes she's entitled to being taken care of. I have tried that same line of thinking, but noone joined me or endorsed it, so I asked for help on it. I've found some answers, subs being one. And, I'm still learning self sufficiency, as I still wonder "will he/she help me?" Immediately upon writing that, I felt a knot in my gut, for I give power away when I expect others to do what I can do myself. I am not helpless, and I hurt me when I lie to myself in such a way.
I didn't speak up to her since my emotions were clearly hot. I'll likely speak up to her while with her, as she's lonely and like all people, needs community to survive. I'll likely stay away from her, even in the same house.
But I'll post updates. I'll likely post emotional swings, as I write mostly when emotional, as emotions don't lie
Edit: I've been on E2 around 6 months total. Good results, but slow. Some happy times indeed. But very uneventful. Maybe stuff was changing? Don't know.
I want to be FREE!