01-25-2015, 12:09 PM
Still waiting on those sleepfones. Will report!
For now, I dished out some awesome advice and want to re-post it here. Deals with online dating. How its a trap for people like us, who are and can be hard on ourselves.
We all have skeletons in the closet. We all have secrets we want nobody else to know. We all got fked up crap to deal with. Why get worked up over a woman.
Posting this and typing it gave me some food for thought. It really is true, you learn the most when you teach!
Read.
QUOTE:
"I have removed myself from any dating sites, until my AM6 is finished and I feel in the proper state.
I have this thought that want to explain to you.
You see, it is best to not do any online stuff. The reason is this: you cant see their imperfections- to say it lightly.
I talk to women at work. I can see their personality, their imperfections, their strengths, their own Aura. Most people think of how they are being perceived too much to notice you. You cant see women's personality or imperfections/strengths online. You see what they want you to see. It is a hard thing to do, to see a perfect woman online- perfect body, perfect text outlining what she likes, perfect pictures... And not feel inadequate.
(TIP: Become good/master in-person approaching/meeting/sexing Tongue before doing online crap)
-The fact is... YOU cant see if she is being real. LIKELY she is not. WHY? Because she worries about being perceived. She wants to come across as a good candidate.
You have never met those women, so you cant see their TRUE SELF.
It is extremely likely that I would find someone on Tinder, POF or OKCupid that looks like a perfect 10. The truth is, after meeting her, I might go WTF she is so... Cynical... Selfish... Brat... etc.
We all have assholes. We all have to take a shi* at the end of the day.
Their is no point in getting overworked about a woman.
If you find yourself getting carried away... simply imagine her taking a sh**.
Everyone has imperfections. You/I should never feel inadequate. A true man makes a woman earn his affection.
We all live on borrowed time. Does she deserve your precious UN-replaceable resource?
Food for thought. You want advice? Seek out a much older mentor who is/was good with women. Say in his 70s.
He will share all with you, as my grandfather did. I still don't understand some of it, but lets just say- typing this post gave me an Epiphany!"
-Leo
For now, I dished out some awesome advice and want to re-post it here. Deals with online dating. How its a trap for people like us, who are and can be hard on ourselves.
We all have skeletons in the closet. We all have secrets we want nobody else to know. We all got fked up crap to deal with. Why get worked up over a woman.
Posting this and typing it gave me some food for thought. It really is true, you learn the most when you teach!
Read.
QUOTE:
"I have removed myself from any dating sites, until my AM6 is finished and I feel in the proper state.
I have this thought that want to explain to you.
You see, it is best to not do any online stuff. The reason is this: you cant see their imperfections- to say it lightly.
I talk to women at work. I can see their personality, their imperfections, their strengths, their own Aura. Most people think of how they are being perceived too much to notice you. You cant see women's personality or imperfections/strengths online. You see what they want you to see. It is a hard thing to do, to see a perfect woman online- perfect body, perfect text outlining what she likes, perfect pictures... And not feel inadequate.
(TIP: Become good/master in-person approaching/meeting/sexing Tongue before doing online crap)
-The fact is... YOU cant see if she is being real. LIKELY she is not. WHY? Because she worries about being perceived. She wants to come across as a good candidate.
You have never met those women, so you cant see their TRUE SELF.
It is extremely likely that I would find someone on Tinder, POF or OKCupid that looks like a perfect 10. The truth is, after meeting her, I might go WTF she is so... Cynical... Selfish... Brat... etc.
We all have assholes. We all have to take a shi* at the end of the day.
Their is no point in getting overworked about a woman.
If you find yourself getting carried away... simply imagine her taking a sh**.
Everyone has imperfections. You/I should never feel inadequate. A true man makes a woman earn his affection.
We all live on borrowed time. Does she deserve your precious UN-replaceable resource?
Food for thought. You want advice? Seek out a much older mentor who is/was good with women. Say in his 70s.
He will share all with you, as my grandfather did. I still don't understand some of it, but lets just say- typing this post gave me an Epiphany!"
-Leo
