10-11-2015, 12:39 PM
Well the sales page doesn't really list all the specific bullet points so I guess I'll rank myself on the ones it does mention
Emotional pain relief
Before I would say I was a 2 or 3/10. I got by by surrounding myself with friends and always doing something so I wouldn't think about the negative things that happened to me. I'd say that I'm now a solid 7, maybe an 8. The past doesn't really bother me, but sometimes I think about some things and that it could've been better. Only much more recent events though
Emotional healing
I would say this is a 7. I'd really think that this was similar to the above. I guess above all, the worst thing I feel emotionally is perhaps a sense of uncertainty when there's a lack of clear communication. For example, if people flip flop how they act or if I send a text and don't get any response. I'd rather clearly know everything is good or something's wrong on the other person's end than be in the shadows left to speculate. This doesn't bother me at much as it did before though, but it still does bother me
Guilt/shame/fear release
Before I was probably a 4/10 with how I felt about GSF. Now I'm like a solid 7, maybe 8. The last 2 or 3 points are what I have to gain in terms of letting go of fear. I'm definitely not paralyzed by fear. But in my mind, being a 10 would mean there is no hesitation there is no "oh, what'll happen if..", it's just simply "Do I feel like doing this or not" and then executing.
Mental/emotional maturity improvement
Before, I would say I was about a 5 or a 6. Now I'd say I'm a 7 or 8. But the difference is there.
Self forgiveness
Before a 3/10. If I messed up before, I would replay it over and over in my mind and it would terrorize me for days. I'm now a solid 7 or 8. If I do something/don't do something I wanted to do, I logically think "wow, I was so stupid", but I don't emotionally feel the response and I get over it within hours.
Forgiveness of others
Before I'd say I was a 5 or 6/10. In general, it's easy for me to forgive and forget if someone apologizes for something. The kinds of things that people don't apologize for though, that's what use to really get to me. I'm now a 7 or 8. Much better than before
Letting go of the past
This was a major thing for me. Like I said I always did something so I didn't have to think about the past. So in my mind, I felt like a 5/10, but I'm thinking I was probably a 2 or 3/10. Now I have to say that I'm a solid 8/10. I've let go of so much from the past.
Self Validation
This is a tough one to evaluate. I'd say it improved. I mean now, I don't emotionally feel so reactive to what others say or think about me. In terms of me praising myself though, I don't do that often. Right now I'd say I'm a 6 or 6.5/10
Emotional pain relief
Before I would say I was a 2 or 3/10. I got by by surrounding myself with friends and always doing something so I wouldn't think about the negative things that happened to me. I'd say that I'm now a solid 7, maybe an 8. The past doesn't really bother me, but sometimes I think about some things and that it could've been better. Only much more recent events though
Emotional healing
I would say this is a 7. I'd really think that this was similar to the above. I guess above all, the worst thing I feel emotionally is perhaps a sense of uncertainty when there's a lack of clear communication. For example, if people flip flop how they act or if I send a text and don't get any response. I'd rather clearly know everything is good or something's wrong on the other person's end than be in the shadows left to speculate. This doesn't bother me at much as it did before though, but it still does bother me
Guilt/shame/fear release
Before I was probably a 4/10 with how I felt about GSF. Now I'm like a solid 7, maybe 8. The last 2 or 3 points are what I have to gain in terms of letting go of fear. I'm definitely not paralyzed by fear. But in my mind, being a 10 would mean there is no hesitation there is no "oh, what'll happen if..", it's just simply "Do I feel like doing this or not" and then executing.
Mental/emotional maturity improvement
Before, I would say I was about a 5 or a 6. Now I'd say I'm a 7 or 8. But the difference is there.
Self forgiveness
Before a 3/10. If I messed up before, I would replay it over and over in my mind and it would terrorize me for days. I'm now a solid 7 or 8. If I do something/don't do something I wanted to do, I logically think "wow, I was so stupid", but I don't emotionally feel the response and I get over it within hours.
Forgiveness of others
Before I'd say I was a 5 or 6/10. In general, it's easy for me to forgive and forget if someone apologizes for something. The kinds of things that people don't apologize for though, that's what use to really get to me. I'm now a 7 or 8. Much better than before
Letting go of the past
This was a major thing for me. Like I said I always did something so I didn't have to think about the past. So in my mind, I felt like a 5/10, but I'm thinking I was probably a 2 or 3/10. Now I have to say that I'm a solid 8/10. I've let go of so much from the past.
Self Validation
This is a tough one to evaluate. I'd say it improved. I mean now, I don't emotionally feel so reactive to what others say or think about me. In terms of me praising myself though, I don't do that often. Right now I'd say I'm a 6 or 6.5/10
