02-18-2023, 08:34 AM
Thank you for taking time to not only write this response, but to follow my journal. TBH I figured people had lost interest in my journal.
"The thought pattern that you 'don't want to allow her mistreatment because of your self-respect' is a fallacy. You are again and again giving away the keys of your self-respect to someone else, you are putting your well-being into her hands, thinking that she is the only person that can make you feel good about yourself again. That's not true."
True. And I know this. It's like every time I figure out why I can't let go, that's not really the reason.
Anyway, thank you for your thoughtful advice
"The thought pattern that you 'don't want to allow her mistreatment because of your self-respect' is a fallacy. You are again and again giving away the keys of your self-respect to someone else, you are putting your well-being into her hands, thinking that she is the only person that can make you feel good about yourself again. That's not true."
True. And I know this. It's like every time I figure out why I can't let go, that's not really the reason.
Anyway, thank you for your thoughtful advice
E1 (3m) > E2 (6m) > E3 (3m) > UMSv1 (1.33 y) > MLS (1 yr) > UH (1yr)