(01-30-2017, 10:49 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: - Make the girls more active in seducing us. When on DMSI I found I had to do all the work. The attraction was there, but I still did all the legwork. This needs to be reversed (except for the attraction, although I've noticed that feeling attraction for a girl is not necessary to initiate the sniper)
- Oneitis needs to be addressed. I constantly wonder if my obsession with milf is oneitis or strong desire. But it shouldn't matter in my mind because we should get the girls we want. Oneitis sounds more like a moral issue than a valid factor to me. If we want a particular girl, DMSI should help us f*ck her, and f*ck her repeatedly, no exceptions. I'm all for removing unhealthy clinging, but it's a fine line between unhealthy clinging and healthy desire. I don't want "you shouldn't need her bro!" shit going on. I'm running DMSI to get the women I want, we should embrace that, not be ashamed of it. Nor should "oneitis" be a valid excuse for why the program is not getting us that particular girl we want. Alphas don't settle.
- More masculine programming. I'm still having trouble with telling women what to do, leading, and doing what I want.
That's all I can think of for now. Hope some of that is useful and/or inspires other ideas.
Good post, these particularly resonate with me.
I don't feel the attraction is working as well as it should, there doesn't seem to be much action from their part imo. So it's hard to know if the program is doing anything.
The masculinity thing I agree with. I am not sure what to do also to be correct and get results. Closest I maybe got here was those random huge urges to smack girl's asses I know. It was weird and out of nowhere, and I wasn't risking a sexual assault charge, or a smack and bad rep afterwards to go along to see if I get laid. Since I never get urges to do that before, seems to me it was the program V2.5, trying to push me to do it for some reason. This kind of stuff needs to be fleshed out more, SATT.
The biggest point that stuck out to me here was the oneitis thing. I don't see the difference between wanting to snipe a certain girl (or even HOW you use the "sniper" to get a certain girl or how any of that works to be honest, there are certain girls I like now and don't seem to have "sniped" any of them to be sexually attracted or take action on me), and oneitis. Obviously, each of us have a few girls we really want to have sex with. And we are buying the program TO have sex with them, or that type etc. So I don't see how demonising this exact thing will improve anything. If we want a certain girl, it should get us that girl, exactly. After all, it's designed to get the ones you find attractive to pursue you for sex...so I don't see why this is a problem at all. This one needs to be a major priority because I guarantee the majority of guys using this have a certain girl or girls in mind they want to have sex with using it.
My suggestion:
I feel when we have an agenda with girls that are attractive, fear comes into the picture, anxiety, limiting beliefs, all of that comes into play and ruins things.
However, when we are talking to guys, or unattractive girls, there is no agenda anymore, and we have no fear, no anxiety, no limiting beliefs!
We can simulate this effect by making ourselves completely satiated with attractive women, like we already have a "full cup". When you are already dating a super hot girl, and getting amazing sex, do you feel the same level of fear, anxiety, limiting beliefs around girls? Hell no, right? Because you're already satiated, if you're full after eating a good meal, do you want more food, even if it's good and one of your favourites? No! If done correctly, it can create a mindset where we now have no fear, no anxiety, no limiting beliefs, no garbage getting in the way anymore because we are already completely satiated. We can simply be ourselves, no more "trying", we can just "BE". And since this program is designed to get women to approach US for sex, using this is necessary to allow us to not only see what the program can really do because we will now be satiated so no more urges to chase chase chase 25/8 annoyingly finally allowing the women to do the heavy lifting! But also allow us to get our of our own way. I see win-win here. I think this is a very clever way to bypass a lot of problems I see regularly occurring, not only with myself, but others as well.
Can't wait for V3.1, Shannon. Enjoy the artillery playing, haha
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